The d4vd situation right now is why I will always trust the victim first

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I’ve been following the news pretty closely since it came out. When the body was found in his car at first, I was shocked and expected it to be the case of a stolen vehicle or something. I just thought it was a coincidence. In the last 24 hours, the victim has been identified to be a 14 year old girl who had allegedly been dating the singer since she was 12 years old. Mind you, this means they would have met when he was 17 or 18.

As much as I feel for the girl’s family and as much as I am horrified by the information that keeps coming out about the relationship he had with her, I can’t help but feel like the public reaction to this situation would have been sooo different if the girl had not been murdered. If she had somehow survived that relationship and come out years later to accuse d4vd, absolutely no one would have believed her. Even right now, after a lot of evidence has been found of his relationship with her, some people are still defending him. Others are trying to downplay the nature of their relationship.

This just shows that she would have not been believed at all had she lived to tell the tale. That reality saddens me so much. As far as I know, d4vd has not been made a suspect in the actual murder. So I cannot say much about that. But I find it absolutely disgusting that such a young girl had so much taken away from her. I find it disgusting that an adult would even have such a relationship with a minor. Abusers don’t have a look. They don’t always look like absolute monsters. Sometimes, they have a pretty face and a soulful voice…and that sucks. My heart goes out for the victim and her family.

Comments

  1. playerkei Avatar

    I am surprised he’s not in custody. 

    Maybe I don’t know how these procedures work but finding a dead body seems like probable cause for holding at least

  2. Elon_is_musky Avatar

    I’m a fan of people who worked with him & I’m sure would’ve defended him because they think he’s a great guy, when they hang out. But this just goes to show that someone can be a great guy to everyone else & be something completely different behind closed (apparently cracked, cause ppl knew about it) doors

  3. FakeMonaLisa28 Avatar

    The fact that he released a song called “Romantic Homicide” on her birthday 🤢

    Rip Celeste

    Edit: Sorry I got confused on some details. The music video for the song was released on her birthday, not the song itself. Still absolutely disgusting

  4. baberunner Avatar

    Uhhh… Who/what is d4vd?

  5. reallytiredarmadillo Avatar

    my heart hurts for her – this was a LITTLE GIRL. there’s some song he wrote about just waiting seven more years, so sounds like he was already grooming her when she was 11.

    i can’t imagine how scared she was.

  6. Party-Gift9725 Avatar

    Ngl every-time i see sum about whats going on i think about the song romance homicide and it makes me sick 😞

  7. IThinkImDumb Avatar

    I never thought anything about this was just a coincidence. I just had that hunch

  8. meneldal2 Avatar

    That guy seems to be so stupid though, how do you get a car with a dead body in it impounded?

    A car is the worst place to hide a body. People are going to look at the car at some point. I guess we are lucky so many criminals can’t do crime well.

  9. TheodandyArt Avatar

    I’m genuinely so angry for her because with how obvious his lyrics were and public their relationship, there’s no fucking way NOT ONE friend, parent, teacher, anything didnt notice something was up. People are so quick to excuse their creepy homeboys or blame a little girl that this somehow was allowed to escalate to the point of her death.

    Celeste was failed, we failed her and she died.

  10. Interesting_Reach_29 Avatar

    Imagine if the victim were a white female too — it’d be all over the media. Instead, a sexist, racist, fascist gets a national holiday.

    Stay strong, trust your instincts, and always stay cautious. If in a bad situation or don’t know what to do, approach an elderly woman ever before a man. Let your friends know where you are. And know you’re loved and not alone 💕 .

  11. Cawstik Avatar

    I was so pissed in the Arcane sub when someone immediately doubted if he really did it (another reply being about how common allegations are towards men). What do you want at this point.

  12. CoasterThot Avatar

    The way news headlines were worded, I thought it was D4vd found dead in the car, for like, 3 days. They made it more about him than the person who lost their life.

  13. whatshamilton Avatar

    Oh a rich famous man’s vehicle was found with a body in it, I always assumed he was involved…

  14. AntiqueObligation688 Avatar

    You know what they say… the perfect victim is the unalived one.

    Even in some situations the dead victim isn’t the good one. The perfect victim is always the male perpetrators.

  15. Novasoal Avatar

    God hearing how much of an open secret this relationship was genuinely has me fucking ill. The most open secret ever. So many fucking people knew, and either decided it wasn’t their business or actively took money to keep their mouths shut. So, so, so many people deserve to be punished for how that genuine fucking child was failed. Even worse is the ppl who are still running interference for his sake, like come the fuck on dog. There were people in his fucking discord joking about the relationship. Shit has me miserable

  16. Melodic-Yoghurt7193 Avatar

    I don’t know a lot about this situation but pursuing her at 12 when he was 17/18 is wildly predatory. He even dropped a song about homocide on her birthday and that shit is sociopathic.

    That lil girl was someone’s baby and I can’t imagine how scared she was being killed like that, holy shit. I hate it here. Why are famous and political groups riddled with so much predatory behavior.