One chick asked me to hit her. When I told her I wasn’t okay with that, she doubled-down and told me to hit her in the face with a closed fist and called me “daddy;” gross. I laughed at her (felt mildly bad) and just left. I’m just not into hurting people.
Dated a guy on and off for about four years. The sex was great. Most of the time.
There were times when he’d tell me to be his “little slut” etc. and I just didn’t enjoy it. Instant turn off. I’d stop in the middle of it and either go to bed or leave.
I think the fact I told him multiple times that I didn’t like it and he continued to do it anyway just turned me off to him entirely. He’s still a good friend but, he’ll never see me naked again.
I guess it’s not really during sex but when a girl insists on not using protection it instantly ruins my mood. The first time it happened to me I was stupid and went along with it. Without getting to graphic the girl was on top of me doing her thing and I told her I was close to finishing and instead of getting off me she started riding me faster and harder.
Bad peepee smell, also sweat especially armpit sweat, when he doesn’t wipe after peeing and let the tip sit and marinate in it *gag 🤢also bad hygiene and body odor!
When they do something completely out of the ordinary without checking first. Not even anything aggressive. Someone once grabbed my foot and really sucked my big toe. Took me right out of it.
“Cheerleading” – When she seems overly enthusiastic and not genuine about how I’m doing. Say nothing or scream loudly, whatever you prefer, as long as it’s your natural reaction.
Scratches and pain. This one girl once scratched me so hard on my back I started to bleed, I told her to stop and her excuse was “I always mark my prey.” Absolutely gross.
If he is quiet. My ex was quiet as all hell and I just never felt motivated to do anything. No encouragement, made me feel like I sucked, and I started giving up on trying hard, since I never saw or felt results of my efforts.
now i am dating a new guy, he is expressive and encouraging and I didnt realize how much that would turn me on. I love the sounds he makes when I do things and it makes me want to do more. I like praise, and this guy gives me endless amounts of it.
Too much talking. Don’t get me wrong, I love a little flirty/dirty talk, like to hear I’m making you feel good and vice versa, but the constant talking drives me up a wall. I dont need to hear it the entire time.
Sucked on a d that tasted like piss, I could taste it all the way to the back of my throat. Also didn’t help that I’ve had alcohol that time too. It legit emptied my stomach. Wash your thangs if y’all want a good bj.
Smelly vagina, reeking vagina, smelly armpit anything bad smell will turn me off completely. At one point this lady had a bacterial vaginosis and her cooter stank like fuck I can’t even get an erection.
Too much physical discomfort on my end. I tried bondage once, but it hurt too much trying to keep myself in a suspension position with no pulley system.
When they call you daddy… The last thing I want during sex is to be reminded im a father instant turn off. Like why the hell would anything reminding me about my kid make me want to screw you?
Idk what weird ass incest bullshit has come over ppl the last +30 years, this “catch phrase” has become normalized/popular, but the daddy shit is creepy as hell. What is the point you want to screw your father? Do you like the thought of banging your kid? It’s beyond disgusting… get therapy, not sex. And yes I blame the rise of “step-family” based porn for this one… STOP TRYING TO FUCK YOUR FAMILY!
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When they pepper spray me
bad body odor, especially down there
Bad breath. Bad dirty talk.
If they call me by the wrong name…
When they seem uninterested if that makes sense
Falling asleep…. lol. Actually had a bf who did that ( but not for long ).
Silence. No moaning no dirty talk no expressions no nothing? I’d rather you flat out say “this sucks” midway through sex than not say anything.
When she just lays there and doesn’t do anything.
Comparing to past partners
When it’s just me
Ex used to smoke in bed
Any kind of bad smell
When my parter is not obviously enthusiastically enjoying themselves
One chick asked me to hit her. When I told her I wasn’t okay with that, she doubled-down and told me to hit her in the face with a closed fist and called me “daddy;” gross. I laughed at her (felt mildly bad) and just left. I’m just not into hurting people.
Are you done yet??
Baby talk/baby sounds, it’s a huge turn off.
When they act like it’s a chore instead of something we’re both supposed to enjoy
The lights.
When you can tell the other person isn’t really all that into it.
arrogance
Dead silence. I need to hear something! Even if it’s “Lower” or something g
Lack of intensity just putting on and you doing everything not for the sake of doing it but because you don’t feel the desire to do it
Shit
Switching positions every 3 minutes
Dated a guy on and off for about four years. The sex was great. Most of the time.
There were times when he’d tell me to be his “little slut” etc. and I just didn’t enjoy it. Instant turn off. I’d stop in the middle of it and either go to bed or leave.
I think the fact I told him multiple times that I didn’t like it and he continued to do it anyway just turned me off to him entirely. He’s still a good friend but, he’ll never see me naked again.
I guess it’s not really during sex but when a girl insists on not using protection it instantly ruins my mood. The first time it happened to me I was stupid and went along with it. Without getting to graphic the girl was on top of me doing her thing and I told her I was close to finishing and instead of getting off me she started riding me faster and harder.
Feet. I know it’s a common fetish but I’m literally the opposite side of the spectrum
Bad peepee smell, also sweat especially armpit sweat, when he doesn’t wipe after peeing and let the tip sit and marinate in it *gag 🤢also bad hygiene and body odor!
Scat
Really crazy and distorted faces… Just relax your face, dude… I understand right at the O, but during foreplay…
The lights. I turn them off hard because I don’t have sex with the lights on.
Fake moaning etc
When she asks”is it in yet” and I have to yell”I can’t tell”
Bad smell
Bad breath and bad smells
Doing all the work
Farting! Not so much the accidental ones, but deliberate ones are a big no-no!
Little to no foreplay
burping.. in the middle of making out
When they do something completely out of the ordinary without checking first. Not even anything aggressive. Someone once grabbed my foot and really sucked my big toe. Took me right out of it.
“Cheerleading” – When she seems overly enthusiastic and not genuine about how I’m doing. Say nothing or scream loudly, whatever you prefer, as long as it’s your natural reaction.
Seriousness. Trying too hard to cum when they’re not going to to the point of sweating profusely and acting angry. I just push them off at that point.
Being called “daddy”
Scratches and pain. This one girl once scratched me so hard on my back I started to bleed, I told her to stop and her excuse was “I always mark my prey.” Absolutely gross.
Women opening conversations or arguments mid-coitus.
If he is quiet. My ex was quiet as all hell and I just never felt motivated to do anything. No encouragement, made me feel like I sucked, and I started giving up on trying hard, since I never saw or felt results of my efforts.
now i am dating a new guy, he is expressive and encouraging and I didnt realize how much that would turn me on. I love the sounds he makes when I do things and it makes me want to do more. I like praise, and this guy gives me endless amounts of it.
When someone keeps trying things that are not on the table. Yeesh.
doing things i asked them not to do 🙄 like biting my chest fucking hurts mfer kawitttttt
Too much talking. Don’t get me wrong, I love a little flirty/dirty talk, like to hear I’m making you feel good and vice versa, but the constant talking drives me up a wall. I dont need to hear it the entire time.
Pain. Not interested. Fastest way for me to go from brick to gummy worm
Sucked on a d that tasted like piss, I could taste it all the way to the back of my throat. Also didn’t help that I’ve had alcohol that time too. It legit emptied my stomach. Wash your thangs if y’all want a good bj.
Poor hygiene
When they are very thin and want to be up for the sit-ups, you can feel their bones more than their buttocks.
Smelly vagina, reeking vagina, smelly armpit anything bad smell will turn me off completely. At one point this lady had a bacterial vaginosis and her cooter stank like fuck I can’t even get an erection.
Disinterestion also turn me off big time
STOP CALLING ME DADDY!! IT’S WEIRD!!!
“Put a baby in me!”
Big turnoff before. Less so post-vasectomy.
Too much degrading language. A little dirty talk is fine, but being just insulted or talked down to takes me completely out of it.
The lights gotta turnoff the lights
Untrimmed pubic hair. Not gender specific.
The fact that I’m so awkward and self conscious. I’m afraid I’ll breathe wrong and screw it up.
My ex around year 3 and a half into our relationship she and I were living together.
She stopped shaving her legs and armpits. And would sit in the garage all day smoking cigarettes and playing WoW.
I’d come home from work and she would come inside wanting affection hugs, kisses etc..
Only I didn’t know which smell was worse? The B.O? Or the cigarettes.
Then she would ask for sex. I told her I wanted to shower first and she should join me.
We did a quick shower and got after it.
Moved to doggy atyle and I smelled shit. Looked down and her ass crack was full of dried shit. Like she barely wiped after taking a dump.
Ugh.
When they try to be sexy by kissing my ear but breathe directly into my fucking ear
Telling me to be quiet when im enjoying myself and moaning.
Too much physical discomfort on my end. I tried bondage once, but it hurt too much trying to keep myself in a suspension position with no pulley system.
When they don’t put any flare on the strokes
Randomly remembering they cheated on me …
Teeth during oral or toilet paper pieces on the puss.
Someone doing something they obviously saw in a porno and doesn’t actually feel good in real life.
If she isn’t enjoying herself or responding.
Random Corny jokes…let’s focus
Expecting me to do everything every time
When they cum first and they pay no regard to where you’re at or what you want. Like wtf dude am I just a hole to you?
Bad hygiene and then starfish
When they call you daddy… The last thing I want during sex is to be reminded im a father instant turn off. Like why the hell would anything reminding me about my kid make me want to screw you?
Idk what weird ass incest bullshit has come over ppl the last +30 years, this “catch phrase” has become normalized/popular, but the daddy shit is creepy as hell. What is the point you want to screw your father? Do you like the thought of banging your kid? It’s beyond disgusting… get therapy, not sex. And yes I blame the rise of “step-family” based porn for this one… STOP TRYING TO FUCK YOUR FAMILY!
straight to the thrust w/o foreplay