I really like my colleague but she has a boyfriend
I am 26 male and I really like my colleague 23F. We work together for 3 years now and from the moment she came working at my job I almost instantly started to get feelings for her. After some time I unfortunately heard she has a boyfriend for 2 years at that point. Now 3 years later she still has a relationship but my feelings for her never truly disappeared. I still sometimes daydream about her breaking up with her bf and start liking me. Don’t forget me wrong we work together well, we laugh and just hang around at work at breaks just like normal colleagues. I never told her I like her and she doesn’t know. Still I can’t get rid of the feeling and everytime at work she still makes me happy and gives me butterflies. Even though I know she will never like me back.
Tl:dr It’s very energy consuming and it makes me sad because I know she is going home to her bf not thinking about me while I go home to nobody and thinking about how it could have been. What should I do?
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Don’t do anything bub
This is gonna sound mean, but full stop here. She is in an active relationship and based on what you are saying, your conversations with her are typical of people who have worked together a long time. There is nothing you can do at this point.