I bought my 28F Girlfriend to my female best friends going away party. I’m 30M btw. We have been in a relationship for 2.5 years. I have been best friends with my female friend for 10 years. She is moving to Europe for work. We went to her going away party and my girlfriend had a attitude the whole time. She was with me 4 hours into the cook out. we just got the food and hour ago she said we have been here long enough. It’s time to go. I said no…I’m not going to see my friend for a long time, I want to enjoy this time. so she proceeds to set up a session to hangout with a male friend I do not like. My female friend and I haven’t done anything flirtatious or sexual. We strictly have been homies. I don’t like the male friend because he’s always telling her, he misses her, calls her boo and no he’s not gay.
My girlfriend said she only came to support me at my friends event and I stressed that she went for herself. Then when I didn’t want to leave when she wanted to, it turned vindictive. TL;DR
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Your girlfriend is toxic as hell.
So you get to see how she views your relationship with your friends and how she sees her relationship with the other dude. She keeps him around as a spare is annoyed that you are spending time with your spare so she’s going to do the same with hers. Not helpful problem solving skills and impressively childish behavior for someone pushing 30. Personally I’d express it along those terms and ask her why she thinks deliberately making things more contentious is going to help.