I 25 F goes to a special needs school for adults with disabilities and had a tutor before (we’ll call her Angel) this tutor, who was a literal angel from heaven. She understood my autism and how i worked and we got along really well.
Well after 6 months she left to be a teacher at a elementary school. Well after she left I waited almost a year to deal with this tutor (we’ll call her Karen). Karen refused to understand and learn about my autism and disabilities, She would hand me the work and tell me to do it without any instructions or help. She’s always on her phone on Facebook or taking personal calls or on her laptop again on Facebook or Temu shopping for new shoes.
Like one day she handed me BEDMAS (I’m at a grade one level for reference) and told me “to figure it out”. My mom had to help me at home. The next day my mom told her “Hey I had to help me with my work” He responce is “I knew you would” and she went back on her phone.
Also every month we have to to a eveluation to see where we are at, we havent done one since Karen started in Janurary. I brought these concerns to my mom who reported the problems to admin. I spoke to them on friday and said “we will all meet on Monday” they were concerned.
But when monday came They backtracked and took Karens side saying shes doing this out of the kindness of her heart and i shouldnt be so cruel. I was shocked but repeated what i had told my mom. After the meeting she slammed to door to go outside multiple times and it made me uncomfortable… AITAH?