My girlfriend (21F) blames everything on me(23M) She’s unhappy with her life and constantly shifts the blame onto me. She’s upset because she didn’t get into the college she wanted, and she’s also hurt because her friends often let her down, so now she doesn’t really have anyone to hang out with
I have my own group of friends, but I’ve been spending more time with her because she doesn’t socialize much. A few months ago, she went to stay with her parents, and we only got to see each other maybe once a month, or every month and a half.
During that time, every time we talked, she would share her problems with me. I tried to comfort her, I listened, I talked to her, but it always ended there. After a while, she started again with her problems, but even after I tried to be supportive, she began telling me how unhappy she was with the way I treat her, how she doesn’t feel like a real girlfriend when she’s with me.
Even though I work every day and go out with friends often when she’s not around, she says I don’t make time to text her, that I’ve been neglecting her, and so on. I felt bad about the idea of breaking up, but when I finally did, she told me she had been putting up with a lot too, and that I’m a bad person…
Did I make the right decision by breaking up?
TDLR: After two years in a relationship, my girlfriend blames everything on me. She tells me she’s not happy being with me, that I don’t treat her the way I should, and whenever I try to tell her something that bothers me about her, she somehow manages to twist it around and make it seem like it’s all my fault.