honesty why not check in with your partner see if your meeting their needs and if yours are being met as well communication even if uncomfortable can always lead to a fast easier solution
If they keep texting or talking about the time you had sex. Try to get in a relationship with you afterwards. Start texting you everyday. If they seem like they’re super interested in you after you guys have sex then you did good
When you know how to satisfy yourself with no shame and your not afraid to do the same to your partner……just try it, then when you have sex together getting off at the same time is electric!!!
They will tell you and want more. Focus on their positive experience. Be open to ask what they like and courage them to guide you. Take hand of your partner and show how to do it. Mimic the intensity how soft or hard you like to them to touch you. First time with new partner rarely is perfect. Give them time to learn how your body works. Worst thing is to laugh, judge, point out or say something offensive of their body or act. Have a positive attitude towards diversity.
They’ll tell you and bring it up often. Your ex’s will still want to hook up even after they’re in committed relationships. When you’re good, they come knocking
If they keep coming back for more when u break up… and seem to struggle moving on reminiscing about the old times… a lot. plus when they get with skmone new then are massively disappointed lol 😆
If you haven’t kicked your partner or pets out of bed, you are good in bed. If you sleep alone, you are good in bed if you wake up still in bed and not on the floor
I just am… satisfy your partner before you satisfy yourself. Watching your partner cum over and over and over again until they bleed (figure of speech. Not the real thing) is awesome!
When you do something bs that you shouldn’t and she forgive you, or when you ask her to do something in every day life that she doesn’t beleive in but she do anyway cause you asked
Many years ago when I was a younger lad I had a girl tell me, between breaths, you-fuck-good. I’ll never forget that because it’ll most likely never happen again.
Was there a lot of fluids in the bed when you finished? Did you need a change of bedding?
Did she appear to relax or become more engaged during the experience?
Are you now receiving stitches in your shoulder, back or buttocks because she bit or dug too deep with her nails?
Was the lords name taken in vain?
Did she have a full body seizure at least once during the exchange?
Did she want to cuddle after and burry her head into your chest?
In my experience, if she does any or multiple of these things then you managed to ring the bell and you may now choose any prize from the bottom shelf.
You notice and respond to cues.
You communicate.
You don’t rely on your own assumptions (or opinions of strangers) to determine what is “good” or “bad” sex. One persons yuck is another’s yum (and vice versa).
Better to keep the focus off of your performance anyways. Even in some of the best instances, sex can still be awkward, messy and imperfect.
in my experience if you rock the girls world they will tell you there and then. bonus point if you go into your local supermarket and her older sister sais ” my sister sais your amazing in bed”
Unfortunately, if you have to ask, you might already have your answer… 😂 However, there is definitely a communication barrier on both sides and what works for one person, certainly doesn’t always work for another.
People that you are breaking up with say it as a reason you should stay together. Always was self-conscious about it and thought i was bad at it until that happened.
Listen you as a man have to be confident within yourself and you’ll eventually A see a bunch of woman flock in or if your moderate you’ll land here or there you’ll never know until you go for it
If he goes you did good ladies don’t need to be good in bed honestly unless it’s girl on girl I can’t speak for that. Now if it’s guy on gal which I’m assuming on account of asking this question I was told if she’s wide awake after you left her wanting more if she passes out you did good if she’s a white lady probably gonna have a red glow almost in her face and hips. A partner that is constantly asking to try something new with you or mentioning toys specially early on in your sexual relationship is probably a good sign that you could use some improvement.
Assume that you are not and try to be better. It takes 10 thousand hours too master a craft, if you are naturally good, then you are good compared to others, not yourself, as your potential is greater.
So count the hours, and work hard at getting to that coveted 10k, then you will know!
Well my ex told me even after our huge fight that “well the sex was good at least” and my current girl used to ask me “why is the sex so good?” So that kind of helped.
If you ask your partner what they enjoy, listen to the answers and at least try your best to do that (within reason of your own limits) then you are good in bed.
No one likes exactly the same thing. What’s Fantastic for one person is the worst experience for another. So communication and taking the time to learn each other is the key to good times
They ask me to keep coming back and I’m consistently making them orgasm with my oral skills because lord knows my dick isn’t enough to get the job done alone lol
Them women and men I’ve been with have all told me. The first few people I assumed were just being nice, but when every partner is always saying how good you are in bed and how well you pay attention to their needs, you believe them.
So many comments say ‘they keep coming back’. This isn’t always true. Only 1 man has ever made me finish out of 23. There’s several men I’ve gone back to and trust me it wasn’t because they were good. It’s because I craved intimacy and it was better than nothing
I don’t know if this concludes I’m good in bed but I have a FWB who I’ve been off and on with for so long and he just recently stopped fucking a girl so he could fuck me.
What I always thought was funny was when some men bragged about their prowess in bed, they would say things about how women were always begging them for more. You can read that several ways including they wanted more size or the guy finished way too soon. But either way, I wouldn’t be bragging about it.
I’ve been told by multiple partners that I am. All it really takes to be good for a heterosexual male is to enthusiastically perform oral and learn how to improve this skill and cater to each individual partner, as their preferences will vary slightly but the main thing is that you do it and be excited and enthusiastic while doing it – never had a disappointed customer from using and developing this skill alone.
I think the best indicator is if you have alot of one night stands. If you do. Then you probably aren’t very good or even a good personality. If someone really likes it they always get back together for more adult time.
Genuine compliments and other things people will tell you. Had one person say “green flag” when I did a few things I did during our romp. I’ve gotten “best sex of my life” from a long term partner. Had one person comment how “sexually compatible” we were and sent nudes unprompted afterward. Another partner nicknamed me EE for exceeds expectations. That said, everyone ain’t for everybody and I’ve had plenty of women not come back for a second or third because I’m just not built to do the thing they need, a dom. I’ve never enjoyed being imposing but greatly enjoy a mutually beneficial back and forth.
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The best tip I can give to you is to pay attention during sex. For instance, check to see if the audience-members are applauding or booing.
You don’t have to ask if you’re good in bed
The only thing I’m good at doing in bed is sleeping.
You wake up to find that you haven’t fallen out of bed.
If they make plans for a next time you atleast know you weren’t shit
If you wake up and you aren’t tired
Waking up early
If she moans real loud then your doing it right
If your partner cums 🤷
Often, you can’t know. The only thing you can do is be attentive to your partner and count the orgasms…
These comments are killing me 😂🙌🏼
honesty why not check in with your partner see if your meeting their needs and if yours are being met as well communication even if uncomfortable can always lead to a fast easier solution
I mean, I had a fwb for awhile and I was literally just that to her. So I assume that was a good sign
If you wake up feeling rested and refreshed and haven’t had any accidents through the night
Send them a surveymonkey to their email address
You know, when your partner wants to do it again.
Easy, they keep coming back for more.
If they call back.
They keep cuming back
I have never failed to please myself.
They cone back for more, time and time again. Unless…
…they hope I’ll improve over time
🤔
Edit: spelling.
Communication, reading body language, and anonymous surveys.
I think if someone drives a cross the country to sleep with you. That’s said a lot.
I don’t fall out.
If she cums, yes you did it.
They go to sleep after or can’t walk after getting out the bed
If you have to ask, you’ll never know.
If they keep texting or talking about the time you had sex. Try to get in a relationship with you afterwards. Start texting you everyday. If they seem like they’re super interested in you after you guys have sex then you did good
I work from home
And my appraisals are pretty good
So i guess….
When you know how to satisfy yourself with no shame and your not afraid to do the same to your partner……just try it, then when you have sex together getting off at the same time is electric!!!
They will tell you and want more. Focus on their positive experience. Be open to ask what they like and courage them to guide you. Take hand of your partner and show how to do it. Mimic the intensity how soft or hard you like to them to touch you. First time with new partner rarely is perfect. Give them time to learn how your body works. Worst thing is to laugh, judge, point out or say something offensive of their body or act. Have a positive attitude towards diversity.
If you are bad at bowling
I’m so good I call out my own name.
Check the comments on the hub after you post the video
People will ask you to come back for seconds.
I love being in my bed. I’m always good when I’m there.
If you’re regularly reaching REM sleep, I’d say you’re doing good. Try to stay consistent with your bed time, it’ll really help you improve.
if you’re hitting it from behind and you see a shitload of a white foamy substance accumulating at the base of your rod
If they become almost comically sleepy after, they’re pretty satisfied. If they want more the next day, that’s also a good sign
All my neighbors says I’m great
They’ll tell you and bring it up often. Your ex’s will still want to hook up even after they’re in committed relationships. When you’re good, they come knocking
Hands down. I’m the best in bed!
When I’m sleeping.
They’re eager to fuck you again as fast as possible
If they keep coming back for more when u break up… and seem to struggle moving on reminiscing about the old times… a lot. plus when they get with skmone new then are massively disappointed lol 😆
If you haven’t kicked your partner or pets out of bed, you are good in bed. If you sleep alone, you are good in bed if you wake up still in bed and not on the floor
I just am… satisfy your partner before you satisfy yourself. Watching your partner cum over and over and over again until they bleed (figure of speech. Not the real thing) is awesome!
If you don’t know already…
My wife says her boyfriend is bigger and good at sex, but she prefers me <3
It’s like pie, if its good they’ll ask for seconds.
“Anymore of that sex left”
When you do something bs that you shouldn’t and she forgive you, or when you ask her to do something in every day life that she doesn’t beleive in but she do anyway cause you asked
If you wake up the next morning and your face looks like a glazed donut and your mustache looks like a dried out paint brush.
You just ask afterwards. “You liked that?”
Send out a post sex survey monkey?
Many years ago when I was a younger lad I had a girl tell me, between breaths, you-fuck-good. I’ll never forget that because it’ll most likely never happen again.
Did she place a sticker on your forehead?
Was there a lot of fluids in the bed when you finished? Did you need a change of bedding?
Did she appear to relax or become more engaged during the experience?
Are you now receiving stitches in your shoulder, back or buttocks because she bit or dug too deep with her nails?
Was the lords name taken in vain?
Did she have a full body seizure at least once during the exchange?
Did she want to cuddle after and burry her head into your chest?
In my experience, if she does any or multiple of these things then you managed to ring the bell and you may now choose any prize from the bottom shelf.
Do like Austin Powers and keep a 9mm automatic under ya pillow. You’d be good.
They usually tell you
You don’t get comforted afterwards, that “it’s ok, you have a nice personality”
If you’re a guy and the girl has made a pool on your bed then you’ve done something right.
There was a while I was okay but made it really bad for my wife. Then I got a CPAP and stopped snoring and she was able to sleep too.
If you’re not afraid to ask your partner about that.
They tell you so.
You notice and respond to cues.
You communicate.
You don’t rely on your own assumptions (or opinions of strangers) to determine what is “good” or “bad” sex. One persons yuck is another’s yum (and vice versa).
Better to keep the focus off of your performance anyways. Even in some of the best instances, sex can still be awkward, messy and imperfect.
If a hookup keeps asking for sex even months later, I think that’s a good sign.
Communication.
Think of the other person’s body as an instrument. If you can make beautiful sounds come out of it, you can be sure you’re good at it 🤭
You get asked to come back for more
They tell me
They keep coming back
They cum
My ex told me she only stayed with me because of how good the sex was. I’m still riding that high 5 years later.
Mom told me so
I can fall asleep in less than 5 minutes in bed. That’s pure excellence!
in my experience if you rock the girls world they will tell you there and then. bonus point if you go into your local supermarket and her older sister sais ” my sister sais your amazing in bed”
For me (and this has almost always reigned true) ….. if you cannot grasp how to properly kiss, well, do I have not so surprising news for you.
They say it, and they come back over again. After enough times of that, you come to understand that you do, in fact, got it.
When shes taking pictures of the bed and sending it to her friends
shes crawling into the bathroom
crazy in love eyes staring at you in disbelief
she’s gonna text you constantly
i just hope i am
When they keep coming back for more and often. Obviously you must be doing something right.
I’m very good in bed. Straight to sleep, no mucking about and no reading by torchlight under the covers.
When I wake up and have a lot of energy, I know I’m good in bed.
Did she cum first? Mission accomplished.
Unfortunately, if you have to ask, you might already have your answer… 😂 However, there is definitely a communication barrier on both sides and what works for one person, certainly doesn’t always work for another.
Good yelp reviews. Like Duh!
Does she orgasm everytime and not fake it? If so, you are good in bed.
People that you are breaking up with say it as a reason you should stay together. Always was self-conscious about it and thought i was bad at it until that happened.
Listen you as a man have to be confident within yourself and you’ll eventually A see a bunch of woman flock in or if your moderate you’ll land here or there you’ll never know until you go for it
Whether you’re talking about sleep or sex the same is true: the aftermath.
If you and your partner(s) are exhausted, a little punch drunk giggly, and in the warm fuzzy space…congrats you’re good at sex.
If you wake up refreshed, you’re good at sleep.
When they’re so spent from orgasms that they can’t move and you haven’t cum yet.
Return customers
If you have men chasing you then you know you
I give out a survey.
Good in bed depends on so many things..
Do you pleasure your partner ? Ladies first !
They’ll tell you.
Is everybody in the bed happy? Then you’re good!
If the sheets are wet.
That’s what she said
Get an Ouro ring
If youre spontaneous not afraid to try something new and if you talk dirty
If he goes you did good ladies don’t need to be good in bed honestly unless it’s girl on girl I can’t speak for that. Now if it’s guy on gal which I’m assuming on account of asking this question I was told if she’s wide awake after you left her wanting more if she passes out you did good if she’s a white lady probably gonna have a red glow almost in her face and hips. A partner that is constantly asking to try something new with you or mentioning toys specially early on in your sexual relationship is probably a good sign that you could use some improvement.
I bring out the hot wheels and tech decks and we have a fuckin blast!
Assume that you are not and try to be better. It takes 10 thousand hours too master a craft, if you are naturally good, then you are good compared to others, not yourself, as your potential is greater.
So count the hours, and work hard at getting to that coveted 10k, then you will know!
If people initiate sex with you
Well my ex told me even after our huge fight that “well the sex was good at least” and my current girl used to ask me “why is the sex so good?” So that kind of helped.
You don’t fall out of it. 😇
If you get a message at 4am ‘hey what are you doing’
They refuse to take payments and keep coming for more.
My pansexual partner told me that I fuck like a woman. Probably the best compliment I’ve ever received.
If you don’t understand why that is a compliment to a man, then you’re probably bad in bed.
If you need to change the sheets afterwards 😂
When you make her leg twitch uncontrollably.
She falls asleep before you after sex.
If you ask your partner what they enjoy, listen to the answers and at least try your best to do that (within reason of your own limits) then you are good in bed.
No one likes exactly the same thing. What’s Fantastic for one person is the worst experience for another. So communication and taking the time to learn each other is the key to good times
Seven hours is ideal, but I suppose six will do.
If no one yells at you to get out of it, you are good in bed.
She keeps letting you fuck her brains out
Multiple orgasms tells me that I’m at least okay
After it is over she lays there shaking all over and almost catatonic. Then the next day she is requesting the same.
If you’re not exclusive, her friends start flirting with you
If you get a follow up appointment
When all your partners are shaking afterwards
They ask me to keep coming back and I’m consistently making them orgasm with my oral skills because lord knows my dick isn’t enough to get the job done alone lol
You are only as good as your partner(s).
If they are as enthusiastic as you, then generally all is good.
They want more regularly
When you wake up in the morning feeling refreshed. I wish that would happen more often.
There is a second and a third and a fourth time.
When your ex tells you that you are after you broke up.
Ask your wife’s boyfriend, he will know for sure. You can also go to him for tips on how to please your wife.
When she can’t stop smiling and won’t keep her hands off you.
Does she squirt or get extremely wet, some females have a hard time getting wet. Can you feel her vagina convulsing.
Men, they get obsessed
If they tell you it was swell
Them women and men I’ve been with have all told me. The first few people I assumed were just being nice, but when every partner is always saying how good you are in bed and how well you pay attention to their needs, you believe them.
When the neighbours also have a cigarette after you’ve finished
You wouldn’t be asking.
I read this as “How do you know if you are in a good bed”
what a surprise when I started reading all the comments 😬
So many comments say ‘they keep coming back’. This isn’t always true. Only 1 man has ever made me finish out of 23. There’s several men I’ve gone back to and trust me it wasn’t because they were good. It’s because I craved intimacy and it was better than nothing
She fills out the feedback survey every time and gives me 5 stars.
I don’t know if this concludes I’m good in bed but I have a FWB who I’ve been off and on with for so long and he just recently stopped fucking a girl so he could fuck me.
If she lets you play a second time, you probably ain’t all that bad.
They’ll tell you
When you dick her so good she says she can’t feel her toes
What I always thought was funny was when some men bragged about their prowess in bed, they would say things about how women were always begging them for more. You can read that several ways including they wanted more size or the guy finished way too soon. But either way, I wouldn’t be bragging about it.
I’ve been told by multiple partners that I am. All it really takes to be good for a heterosexual male is to enthusiastically perform oral and learn how to improve this skill and cater to each individual partner, as their preferences will vary slightly but the main thing is that you do it and be excited and enthusiastic while doing it – never had a disappointed customer from using and developing this skill alone.
She leaves me 5 stars on tripadvisor and says she’ll recommend me to a friend.
Put out comment cards
Here’s a big secret: ask them what they like.
If they say something like, “do what you did last time”… you’re probably good. If they start telling you what they want… you’ll learn how to be good.
It’s almost like communication, and paying attention, is a key part of a relationship.
Return customers, so to speak, and referrals.
I think the best indicator is if you have alot of one night stands. If you do. Then you probably aren’t very good or even a good personality. If someone really likes it they always get back together for more adult time.
Genuine compliments and other things people will tell you. Had one person say “green flag” when I did a few things I did during our romp. I’ve gotten “best sex of my life” from a long term partner. Had one person comment how “sexually compatible” we were and sent nudes unprompted afterward. Another partner nicknamed me EE for exceeds expectations. That said, everyone ain’t for everybody and I’ve had plenty of women not come back for a second or third because I’m just not built to do the thing they need, a dom. I’ve never enjoyed being imposing but greatly enjoy a mutually beneficial back and forth.
If she involuntarily switches to her native language halfway through, you know you’re doing something right.
Ur gonna get told and bothered and never left alone
I get invited back.
when you don’t have to ask
Return customers are a pretty clear sign.
Look in the corner of your screen to see if it’s saying bad good amazing or perfect like In a rhythm game
Easy: There’s never a second time. They leave so satisfied, they don’t need Round 2 😎
i wake up in the morning well rested