AITA for saying no to my friend for free stuff

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So me and this person are friends great friends, he’s a nice chill dude, but really sensitive, for example today, I was playing Roblox and I had really good stuff from a admin abuse and he was asleep and he didn’t attend it, fast forward to when he woke up I showed him all my stuff, and he said”can I have half of those” those were extremely rare and hard to get and he just asked for half like it was Halloween candy, after I said no you’re not getting any, he started to crash out and say that I was a fake friend that can’t help a brother out, and I was proving many points that he also has done the same thing before and yet he didn’t listen, please help.

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    So me and this person are friends great friends, he’s a nice chill dude, but really sensitive, for example today, I was playing Roblox and I had really good stuff from a admin abuse and he was asleep and he didn’t attend it, fast forward to when he woke up I showed him all my stuff, and he said”can I have half of those” those were extremely rare and hard to get and he just asked for half like it was Halloween candy, after I said no you’re not getting any, he started to crash out and say that I was a fake friend that can’t help a brother out, and I was proving many points that he also has done the same thing before and yet he didn’t listen, please help.

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    > He said I was a asshole and a greedy dick, after the argument I felt really bad that I could have just sold this if I just gave him the stuff

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  3. Shot_Degree4964 Avatar

    Anyone who demands you give them your stuff and gets angry when you don’t isn’t a great friend. There’s not really anything for you to do necessarily, since you didn’t do anything wrong in the first place. If he keeps doing this, he’s not a good friend.

  4. DeeHatake Avatar

    NTA, you snooze you lose 😂😂

  5. Ithtik Avatar

    I’d say NTA – ESH honesly.

    • He shouldn’t be demanding you give him half, asking for some of it would have been fine.

    • You shouldn’t have been essentially rubbing it in after he woke up.

    Leaning more towards NTA since you say “he has done the same thing before” though.