How to end a situationship with someone condescending? (24F, 25M)

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I (24F) have been seeing a guy (25M) for a little over a month and want to end things because I can just tell he would be controlling and manipulative in a relationship. Some of the reasons are:

  • admitted he started an argument with me because I slept in late on the weekend and didn’t answer his call
  • makes me feel dumb by asking me questions about my studies and then saying i’m incorrect and mansplaining it (we’re both postgrad med students lol)
  • asked if he could come over for dinner (texted me at 7pm tf) and got mad because I said no??
  • he cancelled a date with another girl (i never told him to) and then said he deserves a phone call bc he did that for me (im autistic and I don’t do phone calls, he knew this)

I don’t want to ghost him but im expecting a passive aggressive response and I don’t like confrontation. I have no idea what to say?