I’m sort of a “pillow princess” because I have a retroverted uterus and my bf has downward curve, so many positions hurt me (except missionary). I want to get better at sex but since we’re both young and live with our parents we can’t do it that often :/ What can I do to get better at taking control.. or to be a better pillow princess without it being awkward…
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Do you want to be in more control, or do you like being a pillow princess? Because you can be a pillow princess and be amazing at sex.
I don’t think being good at sex is necessarily about specific PIV positions – there are some basics in terms of the mechanics, but overall being a good sexual partner is about understanding what turns your partner on and makes them feel good, and, doing those things. Maybe that’s a specific PIV position, maybe it’s something else entirely.
It’s really all about ongoing communication and what makes sense for you as a couple. If you’re both fulfilled by what you can do within your physical limitations, then everything is gravy.
In terms of learning or trying new stuff – it’ll be awkward. Sex in my experience is best when you can maintain a sense of humor about it. Some funny stuff might happen.