My Train Wreck of my Marriage CHEATING WIFE M33 F26

I met my wife in 2007

F26 M33

we were married in 2009

we had our Daughter in 2010

I was an Operations Manager for a nationwide Security Company I’m in charge of large region in the country managing a staff of between 100=120 depending on the time of year. Previously I served over 11 years in the Army (Paratrooper, Qualified unit & Army Sniper)

My wife’s pregnancy was difficult towards the end she has pre eclampsia, Pregnancy Diabetes and high blood pressure when my wife went into labor she was 2 weeks early the birth ended up taking 3 days our Daughter Kaylee was finally born but due to her early birth and all the Drugs they gave my wife to induce labor and that Kaylee had Jaundice our Daughter had to spend 3 weeks in the special care unit, I held our Daughters tiny hand as they put a tube in her nose to feed her. My wife was able to stay with her the entire time as in the Special unit they had rooms for the mothers i still went to work during this time I’d wake up at 5am to be at the special care unit to be at the special care unit and after 7 days to help Kaylee’s 6am feeding go to work at 8am then spend my lunch hour at the hospital at 12pm then back at work at 1300hrs finish work at 1700hrs back home to wash wife’s clothes cook her some dinner then up to the special care unit by 1830hrs home by 2200hrs to start it all again, my wife started showing the signs of post-natal depression so after two weeks I brought my family home I took two weeks off work and we started to get used to our new life as a family with my wife’s post-natal depression I decided to do all of Kaylees feedings during the night as my wife was expressing milk so this was possible after the two weeks was up I had to go back to work so I kept sneaking home to do housework and sort my wife’s lunch to try and help her through this tough time, after a few months she started to get better.

when Kaylee was around 2 years old my wife’s mother had a heart attack and almost died and my wife fell back into a deep depression this seemed to be worse than previous and nothing I did seemed to make a difference so I asked my wife if she wanted to move closer to her family just in case to which she jumped at the idea and said yes (this turned out to be the worst decision of my life) anyway I gave my notice in at work and we made arrangements to move the 500 miles from my family to hers.

I found a house brought it and we moved in not far from her parents’ house, but not once did they come to our home to visit or for coffee nothing that should have been the first red flag anyway it didn’t take long to see why my wife had moved so far from her family ! her entire family Mother, Father & Brother treated my wife like a doormat and very badly always taunting and picking on her calling her Fat or insulting her looks or ideas and generally being very mean towards her. Now as my wife’s husband if you insult my wife, you are insulting me in my opinion so I would start defending her to her family which would always end up with everyone fighting me Including my wife. After about 6 months of this I turned to my wife on the drive home and told her that I would no longer be going to her parents’ house. After about a week my wife started to get very depressed again as she didn’t have me defending her any longer this time, I didn’t know what to do to help her, so I suggested that’s on a Friday or Saturday that she go out with her old friends to reconnect to friends (my second biggest mistake)

these nights would usually start out with her meeting her friends at her parents’ house have a few drinks then head into town. I wasn’t aware that my wife’s mother Lynnly was inviting my wife’s old boyfriends around at the same time during this time sex between me and my wife started to get even less infrequent prior to our wedding it was 2-3 times a day after the wedding it was once every couple of days to once a week after the birth of our daughter. The wife would usually come home drunk and be wasted for the weekend which suited me fine as i would just start going out with our daughter to the parks or train rides or bush walks

the day my wife left me that morning she fucked my brains out before work then broke up with me in the afternoon to say this hit me as a surprise was a massive understatement (I still was unaware of my wife’s infidelity) the first few days I pleaded and begged for us to try and fix things but no matter what I said it only made her more adamant to leave I curled up in a corner of our house with the blinds close I just wanted to die I was hurt confused and in a state of constant disbelief, I couldn’t eat anything every time i tried I was physically sick after a couple of weeks my wife brought a bus ticket back to my family where we originally came from

I stayed at friends we had set up the best man at my wedding Anthony a guy I had served in that army with and Emma my wife’s friend and bridesmaid I was living in their garage after a week I decided I just needed to get away from everyone and everything to I grabbed my hunting gear my friend Tony drove me out to the bush and he told me he was concerned for my well-being I told him that he had nothing to worry about, but he said that he was coming out every few days to check on me he headed off and I headed in as it was around 1700hrs I only had about two hours of daylight so I headed in and made camp. the next day I woke up it was brilliant sunny day I found a clearing nearby and sat on a rock I started crying uncontrollably I grabbed my Rifle loaded a round in the chamber put the muzzle in my mouth and pulled the trigger ….the round didn’t fire I immediately thought of my daughter and how selfish what I had just tried to do was I lost it completely I cried and sobbed until I couldn’t cry any longer and made a decision then and there that I would never do something so selfish and stupid ever again, I also decided that I had to move forward with my life to do this i would move overseas to a different country where my family were situated get a good job in the mines and rebuild my life again. (Oh and before I forget I’m still not sure why the bullet didn’t fire that day I was using old ww2 era 303 Tracer ammo had shot thousands of the same type of ammo and never had one misfire I inspected the rounds primer and it had a good strike on it from the firing pin and the gunpowder stripes were dry so the only conclusion I came to was a faulty primer)

I stayed out hunting for another 4 weeks every day I was out I was getting stronger and stronger and Tony was coming out every few days (I never told him about my suicide attempt)

two weeks later I had sold everything and brought my tickets left the country and went home to my mother 5 sisters and Brother 2 weeks after that I had a job in an open cut mine as a shotfirer with an annual salary of over $200,000 a year

I was on a Fly in fly out FIFO roster of two weeks on one week off and in this time, I kept in contact with my wife and daughter, and I was truly hoping at reconciliation every time I had off, I sent my Wife $2,000 cash and clothes and stuff for Kaylee. I also kept in contact with Tony & Emma and on a call with Tony 6 months later he asked me if I was sending my wife any money I told him that I was and it was $2,000 a month there was silence on the phone I knew there was something very wrong, so I asked him to just come out and say it he then told me how my wife had admitted to Emma that she had been cheating on me 6 months before her leaving me I lost it i hung up and immediately called my wife who I confronted about the accusation and it took over 60 minutes of lies and deflection and accusations for her to admit the truth when she knew that I knew about her cheating and that it was truly over between us she changed completely she did the only thing left for her to hurt me with our daughter she cut all contact between us

As I had money, I contracted lawyers to start family court proceedings to reestablish contact between me and my daughter it took 10 months and over $40,000 in Lawyers’ fees I won the case and was given my rights back as a father I started video calling Kaylee every Tuesday and Thursday this lasted for about a year and a half until my wife discovered that i was no longer working in the mines on the good money so she then cut all contact again for the second time breaking the family court ruling but with nothing to fight it with this time

How can someone you loved so completely turn into something so Evil I can’t comprehend it ? I could never have done what she did to me and Kaylee. My wife has stolen something that I will never ever get back. The last time i saw my daughter she was 5 she is now 15 i think about her all the time i am in constant sadness