She always talks about how much I make and compares me to her friends boyfriends
It makes me feel like im not enough because I dont earn as much
I work hard but im not rich and I thought love was more important
When we fight she sometimes says she deserves someone who can give her more
That cuts deep because I give her everything I can
I love her but I dont want to feel like a wallet instead of a partner
Is this something that gets worse or can it change
TL;DR
Girlfriend (F26) focused on money and I (M27) feel used after 2 years
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That sounds really tough. It’s one thing to want financial stability, but if she’s making you feel like your worth is tied only to your income, that’s not fair. Relationships should be about partnership, not comparison. This usually doesn’t get better unless both people are willing to communicate honestly and set boundaries. Ask yourself: if nothing changed, would you still feel happy and valued with her long-term? Your feelings matter too