I’m 26F and my bf 28M 4 years in relationship. Our dog was diagnosed with giardia, this dog was brought by “us” but is mostly mine. I imagine that in a normal, healthy relationship, both parts would be interested in cleaning the apartment and such. And since we learnt about the parasite I did like 5 rounds of laundry, read from the internet how can I sanitize everything, I came from work yesterday and did nothing but clean and walk the dog and washing his paws etc.
And he did nothing. He helped me take the cover off of the couch and spent the day playing a game on his computer. Then when I was going to sleep, he asked if I want to have s33x with him. You can imagine my answer. I don’t know if I have the right to feel not good about him and the situation. Because the dog is mostly “mine”.
This morning I got up at 9AM to clean &wash some more and ofc I was bummed about it because I’m stressing and I clenched my jaw all night in sleep. And he asked if everything is okay. I said yes. I don’t know what I can say, because I don’t want to tell him to clean this and that and do stuff, I want him to do this of his own idea. Yes I explained to him what is giardia etc. So it’s not like he is not aware of the job it takes to fight it
TL;DR bf doesn’t help me clean the house for giardia, an I right to be angry about it because the dog is “mine”