17M what would you do?

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What would you do? She barely texts, barely calls. I think I got hung up on today. She is getting money from random people on the internet. She is getting 1000+ dollars from some guy I don’t even know. He doesn’t even know I exist. Shes a weed addict. Goes on week long hiatuses, I don’t even know where she is right now. I text her every hour or two. We haven’t had a conversation in a week. I don’t even know if I’m texting too much. I think she’s cheating on me but I don’t know how to improve it and she never spends time with me anymore. For our first 3 months she didn’t do this but now (8 months now) is doing this a lot. She is 16F btw.

TL:DR My girlfriend might be cheating on me and doesn’t text or call me barely and goes on week long hiatuses minimal contact. What do I do and how much should you text someone? Am I texting too much?

Comments

  1. Beginning_Scratch_85 Avatar

    For your own sake, I wouldn’t stay with her. She sounds horrible and she’s not treating you right at all. She’s barely texting, calling, or seeing you & she could be cheating on you. That’s extremely disrespectful, she can’t even do the bare minimum for you, she’s not treating you like a boyfriend.

    If it was me, I would leave her. Imagine if you could be with someone who wanted to call all the time, spend time with you and make you feel loved. Don’t put up with her shitty behaviour.