If your girlfriend (19F) of three years is out and you are there too with your friends and two random guys start buying her and her friend lots of drinks etc for two hours and then your girlfriend says to you she’s going home but actually goes home with the guy at 1am and turns off her location and stays there till 4:30am and makes up a bunch of excuses as to why she’s there and blames her friend and that she didn’t know she was going and then when you confront she says she doesn’t want to talk about it and if you keep asking her you will get hurt and then she dumps you. What would you think?
And you later find out she knew she was going with him and she asked her friend to take the blame so I would never find out and break up with her and she knew
Tl; Dr: your girlfriend (19F) went home with another guy at 1am till 4am and lied to you about it. What would you think?
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She violated your trust, respect and boundaries regardless. Up to you whether you forgive her or not. She had multiple opportunities to remove herself from the situation and didn’t so
You already know the answer.
Sounds like a lucky escape to me. Onwards and upwards bro, All the best.
Based on the behaviour you described, she does not value the relationship she has with you. You have to decide how much you value this relationship in light of her behavior. Many people would likely decide they deserve better respect from their partner.
she just needed a reason to dump you because she cheated so she put the blame on you for asking about it
Ex-girlfriend I hope?
dude… do you actually need to see her video on PH to know or is this just wanting confirmation from other ppl?
So, she blew you off, spent all evening and night with 2 rando’s and went home with said rando’s and one of her girlfriends? Location off, no contact and now she’s gaslighting you so hard she could intern as a power station generator?
Yeah. That’s not your GF anymore mate. Even if nothing happened, which us jaded Redditors doubt, she was dodgy a.f. and should’ve known better.
End it. Get your ass tested for STI’s including bloodwork and a follow up test, move on. Block her and her friend(s) everywhere and go live your best life.
It doesn’t even matter whether there was actual cheating. That was dramatically inappropriate for somebody in a relationship, and she’s being a complete asshole about it afterwards. Untrustworthy shady behavior, move on.
That said, of course she almost certainly cheated.