A couple of months ago, my one year relationship (Both 18) with someone I truly loved came to an end—a person I would have given everything for. But what I couldn’t do was forgive her, forget her words.
We weren’t at the best point in the relationship, and during an argument, she said to me, “You need to find someone who understands you.” Maybe it’s not the most hurtful thing someone could say, but it really hurt me. I tried for months to forget what she said, but I never could. And even though I really loved her, for some reason I couldn’t forgive that.
We stayed in the relationship for a while, but eventually I reached a point where I couldn’t continue. This brings me to my question: how do you forgive someone you truly love but who did something that hurt you deeply? Am I wrong for not being able to let it go?
“TL;DR” I couldn’t forgive the words that someone I truly loved told me, ¿how am I supposed to forgive her If she really hurt me?
¿Am I in the wrong?
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She meant that she’s not understanding you and you deserve better. If you think from that angle then I think you can move forward.