Im originally from the east coast but when i went to a tropical country, mind you the weather was 37 degrees celsius, i wanted to just stay in my bras because i felt like i was melting when im weaeing clothes….i’m typically in my room but then i got out of my room and my mom told me to put clothes on because my dad is there. At first, i don’t feel bad about it but the more i think about it….is it wrong? because first of all, he’s my dad, it’s not like any other male relatives which i think would be worse and also i’m only doing that in the comfort of my own home besides it’s not that different from wearing a bikini at the beach, im even wearing pants. My moms not making sense again becayse she lets me wear a bikini but not live like this? What’s the difference. I’m sorry if i yapped too much.
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If you have to cover up around the men in your life, they’re the problem, not you. And so is your mom for enabling it. Gross! I hope you have safe and trusted adults in your life, and safe friends houses to spend time at. A lock on your door is important too. Stay safe and I’m sorry that no one in your home is protecting you
Does your dad hangout in his underwear?
Expectations of modesty are different in every family. Some families walk around at home naked and have no issue with it. Others insist women cover their hair around any male relatives. Bras are technically considered “underwear,” despite usually having more coverage than bikinis, so maybe your family just has a norm of “we don’t walk around the house in just our underwear.” If everyone in the family adheres to that norm, you can throw on a light tank top or swimsuit cover over your bra when at home. But no, it’s not “wrong” to just wear a bra… it’s just not an established precedent in your household.
It depends on the family honestly, personally don’t love it (I as a guy hate being in underwear around family) but I don’t think your mother should be telling you to do that because of your dad. She has an old way of thinking I guess