TL;DR: I like this guy and I don’t want to scare him off by telling him I like him too early.
I’ve(25F) been seeing a guy(26M) for about a month from a dating app and went on a couple dates already and we have a lot in common. I enjoy his company and like the atmosphere. We’ve kissed, had sex, and cuddled together.
Theres no commitment or exclusivity between us right now and we’ve had conversations about what we’d be, because I’m moving in less than a month.
Both of us were hurt from our previous relationships. And we agreed this was exactly what we needed and to enjoy the moment… But I wasn’t completely honest with him, I think I like him.
I’ve masturbated a couple times to his nudes and our intimate conversations and when I orgasm I start crying, sometimes it takes me by surprise. I think I like him, and I’m scared to tell him because I don’t want to scare him by going too fast when neither of us are emotionally ready for a relationship. How do I cope with this feeling?
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Sometimes it’s better to take a risk than to regret it for the rest of your life. You have nothing to lose by telling him about it.
This is what happened with my partner and I.
I just had a nice talk to them and see what they thought.
It sounds like you are already pretty close and open so I dont think its a bad idea to talk about your feelings.