My ex has been obssessively stalking me and texting anonymously off/on from fake #s for years and ive asked him to stop before. we even got lunch a few times and I was hoping this would bring us some type of closure. well we used to share spotify years ago and his account name never changed. when i say i “stalked” him back i mostly snooped on his random social media stuff but i never harassed him from fake #s or contacted him the way he stalked me..well i learned he got married march 22nd..and his old spotify account has a new wedding playlist. at least two of the songs are old rock songs about wanting to be with someone who is already in a relationship with someone else and wishing she would leave her man and go be with him. it feels SUPER not okay for a wedding playlist as the songs are about affairs..there are a few songs on the playlist that are pop songs and he used to tell me he hates pop songs so i dont think he chose those songs maybe his wife picked them..the thing is i am in a relationship and have told him that its serious but he still chose this playlist. it has been haunting me. i feel sorry for his wife..i feel sorry for him too for some reason..one of the songs is Please do not go by the violent femmes and the other song is In your eyes by charlotte day wilson..i could be dramatically overthinking this completely but it seems wrong to pick songs about affairs for a wedding..and a lot of the other songs he picked are just plain sad..
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With respect, every time you had lunch with him, he interpreted that to mean: “There’s still a chance, she’s giving me an opening.”
The first step in a successful breakup is to stop spending time with them.
It could be worse, you could be the one marrying him.