My boyfriend has never had a birthday

r/

And he never celebrated one as an adult because he didn’t want to be let down. He’s almost 30.

This year I told him, I’ll organise a week end birthday for him.
I asked if it was okay and he said yes.
He’s become more and more excited about it. He’s telling his friends how he’s going away for his birthday, asking if we can have a special cake (of course we can), he’s told me he’s never had a bouquet of flowers in his life (I’ve order a big bouquet already), I’m making his favourite meal, he’s getting presents and cake and balloons.

Treat your boyfriend to something they’ve never had.
Get your son some flowers or a cake for special occasion.
Don’t forget your brothers, dads and other male relatives.

Comments

  1. _A-1_ Avatar

    I’ve never really had a gf/so celebrate my bday like that. I wish I had someone like you

  2. WithLoveNi Avatar

    this is so cute

  3. avid-learner-bot Avatar

    What a goddamn beautiful gesture of love and thoughtfulness. It’s clear the OP truly cares for her partner, recognizing the significance of this milestone birthday. By planning such a special celebration, she’ll not only make his day unforgettable but also deepen their bond through shared memories… and create lifelong moments that will always leave him smiling

  4. P0ptarthater Avatar

    You sound like such a sweet partner 🥺 hope you guys have a lovely bday weekend!

  5. Tremenda-Carucha Avatar

    His first adult birthday bash? Hell yeah, do it big!
    The OP’s thoughtful gesture to make up for years missed will surely leave a mark. She’s creating memories that’ll last a lifetime, the kind you cherish and share with future kids/grandkids. I’m loving how she’s getting creative with gifts, food, flowers… it’s a full-on celebration! The post is such an inspiration to all us lovers out there to show our significant others some damn appreciation

  6. fairys-are-real Avatar

    How sad! I’m glad that about to change for him, I’m exited for him and for u seeing his face light up ❤️

  7. dostelibaev Avatar

    you are just a plain green flag

  8. CerialHawk Avatar

    more need to do this! my boyfriend hadn’t really ever had a birthday either, so this year, 1 month ago, I got his favorite cake, some nice gifts, and planned a whole night out together. afterwards he could not stop talking about it, it made him really happy, and it made me happy to see him so happy. you did a good thing, i hope you have an amazing weekend ◡̈