So hey reddit I don’t know if it’s just me or if it’s common
But everytime I try anal as a male I end up sick
I tried using water and soap since I’m too afraid to buy lube from a drug store
And I only used one finger
Everytime I try it I end up gassy and constipated for a week or two
I started to think that I’m too sensitive to bottom
I don’t know who to ask since I live in a homophobic county so I don’t have anyone I could ask for medical help
And I don’t want any creeps in my dms
I mean a lot of times I ask things on Reddit and I end up with creeps in my dms asking me for pics
If you could help I’d really appreciate it
Thank you
Comments
You need to use lube, water and soap isn’t going to lubricate your hole the same way lube does.
Are you also just shoving your entire finger in? It’s best to be gentle and slow, slowly inserting a little bit, move it back and forth a little, then move it a little further etc etc. When you reach the point you’re happy with, reapply the lube and keep going.
Your butt’s really not gonna like soap. Mucous membranes are very sensitive.