Bad Vibe with Coworker, and I’m certain he reads my Reddit posts.

I work with a coworker who’s starting to give me a bad vibe. First week we meet and he invites me to a bar. Figure I should be polite and go along. As soon as I enter the bar I get a bad vibe and head out the back. Figured it was because of the thc gummies I took.

He’s been trying to hang out after work through video and which would be fine, but I’m so busy with my own thing. Haven’t had the chance to hang out or do much since moving to a new city.

Now he’s starting to get weirder and weirder. Grabbed onto my thigh at work twice. Completely off-guard and in the one place where i didn’t expect it. Thought I made it clear I’m not gay, but he still calls me stud even though I clearly don’t like that.

Alright, unfortunately I’m so used to that with male coworkers catching crushes that I’d normally just pass it off (I’m a straight man BTW). Normally it goes away for most people, but this has lasted way too long.

Now I’m certain this guy has access to my Reddit account and is reading my posts. I started posting in CPTSD, so I can fix up my generational trauma. As soon as I start posting there, he becomes super emotionally sympathetic without a reason. Weirded me out for a sec. Because his vibe changed right away.

Got a weird vibe and checked his facebook since he was fired from a school and never explained why. Guess what, he posted something that I posted a little while ago. I’m a unique person, so nobody posts like that.

Today, he mentioned a distinct post about switch games are not as expensive comparatively since the 1980. It was completely random and had nothing to do with our conversation. Completely out of the blue and almost verbatim to what I posted a couple days ago.

So, now I’m a little weirded out by this guy. I just wanted to talk with a coworker and make the days go by faster. I figured I’d be nice to him since he’s upset about his life and struggling to find a future wife.

BTW, Matt. If you’re reading this, which I’m sure you are. I’m not gay, and have zero interest in you. I’m only happy to be coworkers, and right now you’re pushing it. And the way you’re trying to manipulate yourself into getting me to like you is fucking weird.