In my 40s, alwsys lived with parents then moved in with my boyfriend (his house). We were together over a decade, then he made it clear we would never marry.
So here I am, sleeping for the first time in my own place, all on my own. The mattress is still wrapped in plastic on the floor, pillows also still in plastic. This apartment has a weird smell to it but that’s ok. Still learning how to be a full adult, at the same time reminding myself that just because someone didn’t choose me, I can still choose myself.
Ladies know your worth please. Don’t be like me and stay too long where you’re not appreciated.
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35m here and in the same position. Just got out of a 8 year relationship and finally have my own space, despite the heartbreak that comes with the end of a relationship i feel so at peace and happy to have a space that’s 100% mine. Single isn’t so bad.
35m here and in the same position. Just got out of a 8 year relationship and finally have my own space, despite the heartbreak that comes with the end of a relationship i feel so at peace and happy to have a space that’s 100% mine. Singles not so bad.
Good luck! You’ll get the hang of it!