Again fresh account because I don’t want my BF (M27) to see this.
Followup from my earlier post how do a make my (F24) BF who’s on the smaller side feels better during oral. Lots of useful feedback from my first post suggested I try to make him feel better about my comment by giving him oral and making him feel more appreciated. So basically any experience with smaller guys and how to make a blowjob feel better for them outside of pretending to get pleasure of it myself?
Thank you for your answers.
Edit.
First off thanks for all the comments and advice they’ve been helpful. For some context my earlier post was about how I had told him that he hadn’t been the largest guy I’ve been with after repeatedly asking me, and now has been making unpleasant comments about it for the last couple of weeks. I had to take the post down because of DMs but that’s the context for why I maybe want him to feel more adequate, besides he’s actually only just below average.
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Dont lie. That will just insult him. If he’s on the smaller side than dont say things like ooh look at that big dick. Say more along the lines of ooh I love this dick (which hopefully is the truth). Smaller guys also give a girl the chance to work a few more tricks in, like deep throat or going for licking the balls while hes inside, and other goofy playful things like that. Personally i like the feeling of when my girl is doing things with me, not just for me.
Most nerve endings are in the head
I think you’re focusing on the wrong thing, I don’t think you need to try to make him feel “larger”. You just need to make him feel adequate and loved and appreciated. You don’t need to deny reality, just appreciate him for what he’s got.
Tbf I can not see your “first post” because as you said this is a brand new account. So i may be missing context. But I don’t think faking it is the answer. I think working with your boyfriend and communicating to ensure you both receive pleasure should be the focus. If he’s not big enough down there to please you, he has a mouth and hands to work with. Help him out and guide him on what you want him to do. But it’s not your job to trick him into thinking he’s big, it’s your job to make him feel loved in his body as-is. If size is a definite sore spot, don’t bring it up at all I say. You can compliment his body without specifically referencing size. I feel like calling an obviously small penis “huge” would be even more insulting, because it’s an obvious lie. Making him feel good about his penis as it really is should be the goal. But it’s ultimately on him. Pretty hard to make someone get over their body image issues all on your own.
Just love him and everything will fall into place. Always put love at the center of the relationship
Hung like a stud gerbil here.
Never fake anything. He’s not hung – he knows it, you know it.
I’m actually glad I’m not hung. Because receiving oral is so awesome. No reason for a girl not to go all the way down to the base. Guys that are hung never get that.
You’re awesome for giving him oral. May the gods bless you!
Want to give better BJs? Pressure and depth, that’s all you need.
I don’t know the true size your BF is sporting, but the answer is the same… whether he has a micropenis or is just less than average.
Don’t focus on the size…. Just be happy, excited, and eager to see and touch his genitals.
If it feels awkward, slow your strokes, humps, and slides. The longer contact before changing directions will mask the size of his manhood.
Don’t let him make you feel bad about it if he gets pouty. Reassure him that you enjoy his penis and that you’re with him because he is great for you. Don’t lie, be cute but sincere
I don’t understand your question.
Do you want to make him feel larger? Why?
Or do you want to better pleasure him? And for that you wanted to make him feel larger?
Say it’s way bigger than my dads
Focus on making love and not comparison and be supportive by looking into what materials foods and supplements and herbs he can consume that will and can overtime enhance his form
You don’t, you both got eyeballs. You enjoy what you’re playing with passionately instead?
Dude, you don’t need to make your BF think he’s the largest you’ve ever seen. You just need to make him feel loved, and that’s all we want.
Your BF might have insecurities you will simply not be able to help him with. If he pressured you into answering that question only to later make you feel bad for you being honest, then that’s on him and bot on you. There’s not much you can do besides continuing being a nice girlfriend to him
What the actual fuck i just read
I wish I had his problem, bj are not that enjoyable for me because teeth always scrape the shaft, and women say their jaw hurts after 2 min
Enthusiasm is key 🫨