Never mind that I do all of the work around the house.
Never mind that I work a high stress job (as he does)
Never mind that he would rather spend his Saturday nights drinking to excess with his guy friends than hang out with me (every weekend this happens)
I was working from home the other day (he does full time). I was in a really important team meeting and it was somewhat tense.
He had just eaten lunch and was sitting on the couch with his computer reading a news article. About 10 feet away from me.
I was finishing a point on the call and suddenly he lets out this MASSIVE fart and groans “muhhhhhhh” loudly.
It was humiliating. I stopped talking and muted my mic immediately and went off camera and screamed at him.
I don’t know if the AirPods mic picked up the full thing, nobody said anything, and I am too terrified to ask any coworkers because it’s honestly embarrassing.
Later he said he was sorry but frankly this just felt like the last straw.
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That is absolutely disrespectful of him. Every relationship that ends usually has a straw that broke the camels back. Something relatively minuscule, but added on top of all of the other bullshit was just too much.
Omfg! I’m mortified for you!
I need the whole story if this is the last straw. What a dick. Lol
It doesn’t sound as though he respects or even likes you. He likes what you do for him (picking up after him, sleeping with him), but he doesn’t like YOU. If he did, he would actively be trying to spend time with you and would never dream of being so disrespectful as to act that way during a work call.
I also don’t trust a married man who goes out to party every single weekend, especially without you. That’s (wannabe) single behaviour. The only people I have known to act like that were actively cheating on their partners, or were trying to.
Get tested and serve him divorce papers. Life will be easier without having to clean up after another supposedly grown adult.