sooo i’m a young adult (f), and i don’t really want to say my exact age, but lately i’ve been thinking more about my virginity as i’m getting older. i kind of feel like i have to lose it before it’s “too late” and there’s no one else in my age range who’s also a virgin.
basically… i only want to lose my virginity to another virgin. i know that might sound childish to some people, but i feel like it’s the only way i won’t regret it or feel “cheated” in a weird way. like it just feels more fair to me like neither of us loses out. and if me and the guy don’t end up working out, at least we took each other’s virginity, yk? it wouldn’t feel as one sided or something.
idk maybe i’m overthinking it but that’s just how my brain is working right now. if a guy’s not a virgin, it just doesn’t feel right to me. like it would feel unfair. anyway, thanks for reading my little rant lol
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Your body, your choice.
You are allowed to choose your partner according to what you want. Nothing wrong with that!
As always, and at any age, please practice safe sex and use protection.
Honestly your first time should be special, it’s worth the wait to find the right person at the right moment at the right place. Don’t let any sort of social pressure make you feel like you need to get rid of it by a certain time
That being said, if you’re in search of older virgins you’ve come to the right social media platform
as a virgin u can choose that no problem, its only weird when ppl who no longer are virgin go around chasing specifically virgin ppl
It is not but be aware it might not be great, or even good. My husband and I were each other’s first and neither of us knew what we were doing and there was a lot of lack of communication probably because we were young but thinking back i feel like it could have been so much better if at least one of us knew what to do.
Climaxing in my opinion is 100% easier for men and for women it can take more effort. If you really want a virgin just know a virgin is most likely not going to know how to help you finish. In brighter news now many many years later our sex life is amazing and i feel like my husband has mastered the female body lol good luck!
It’s not weird at all. I felt the same way when I was younger. If he had a body count, he was not good enough for me.
Weird is subjective, but i definitely think you’re drastically shrinking your dating pool, and also placing virginity on a pedestal.
Not weird at all
As a male virgin, I might come back to this post when I’m drunk later tonight but idk probably a bad idea
NOPE!!!
Being with an adult man whose never had sex before was amazing. He was a month shy of his 23rd birthday and I just had my 19th birthday lol
No ex drama. No baby mamas. No high sexual expectations. Everything was the first time for both of us. It just made it that much more intimate and magical.
It worked out so well we got married 6 years later.
You can do whatever you want, and that isn’t weird at all, probably fairly common
Do what’s right for you. But listen to how your body reacts to someone more so than what your mind is telling you.
I don’t think it’s weird but I think it’s potentially limiting. Another virgin would not guarantee an enjoyable or special experience for you. It’s about how you feel about the person and they you, that will make your first time special.
As always, practice safe sex no matter who you are with.
It’s not weird in my opinion. You are allowed to have standards, and wanting to be someone’s first time too makes the whole thing feel more intimate. And I get the fear of regretting it. But don’t rush yourself.
Considering how many people lost their v card already, it may be harder to find someone who hasn’t. If you meet a person that you really like, and if you feel like you want to do it, go for it imo, even if you’re not their first. But again, make sure it’s something you actually want to do, and don’t rush. You’re not missing out.
Nope not weird at all.
I partly understand what you’re going through. I’m early 20s and really want to lose my virginity. I personally am open to anyone I just HAVE TO have a connection with them first. I’ve been hurt in the past and I don’t trust easily so I don’t want to give myself away to just anyone, if that makes sense. But in your case, it’s totally ok to want to be with another virgin. Completely understandable.
Same