For context she’s been my mothers friends since college back in their days and was even there for my mother during my birth. Shes pretty much seen me grow up my entire life. Things between us were normal until puberty hit me like a truck, about a year ago when I was 15 I went from 5’8 to 6’2 in 9 months , my voice got deeper , and I went from slightly chubby to in shape thanks to my dad teaching me how to lose weight in the gym .
I saw her about a month ago which was the first time in 2 years because she moved cities . When she saw me she dropped her bag ( and jaw lol ) and said “you’ve gotten so handsome “ to which I replied thank you . We all ate dinner together and she made a sly comment which was “ you clearly don’t struggle with girls at school” I didn’t think nothing of it and later before she left she asked to quickly get my number to stay in contact with me ( she asked my sister to which is why I didn’t think anything initially) but about 3 days after she left she texted me “come over you must be bored to death at home” and even called my mother asking how I am as the only boy from a family of 6 . Again this is my mothers friend so I didn’t think about it too hard but one day my cousin asked for my phone and a few minutes later asked me why this old lady is trying to groom me . I said “ huh what does that even mean “ and then my cousin explained everything and it was all adding up . I plan on telling my mother soon but before I do is it a stretch ?