Mom said I never allowed her to parent me

r/

Any suggestions on how to respond to that comment?

Like does it even make sense? Sometimes I just need to a sanity check to make sure I’m not misunderstanding a valid concern/or gaslighting myself.

I’m 32 now and we are not super close. Clearly lol.

Edit: her reasoning was that I didn’t tell her much since high school age and she always had to find out after everyone else or from other people. This is because I didn’t feel like I could talk to her, but I can see how that sucks.