What women go through? 😕

Today I was walking in Germany on a holiday. It was a beautiful great day so many nice people around. There was a very decent looking well, dressed guy fit, walking, and in the opposite direction, there was a random girl walking down towards the subway station. I was in a good mood, just admiring the beautiful city and the people, then suddenly I heard the guy say something so vulgar to that random girl. Literally, he commented on her body part and what he would do to it. Then he walked off.

I was caught off guard because never would I ever imagine someone would pass a remark like this to a girl, (I would assume people would say something like hey baby – which is also bad, but not this bad) let alone a guy who is so well dressed, gym fit in a well fitted shirt, what I would say, stereotypically attractive. Like he literally looked like a well educated & smart. The kind of guys that movies cast to portray the “good guy”.

The girl was also attractive. She did not turn back or reply. She continued walking and went right down to the subway, and that guy walked off. I turned back and looked at him in disbelief. I was like WTF??

I felt terrible to have witnessed something so ridiculous. I am sorry to all the girls out there who experienced this on a daily basis, something that I witnessed for the first time.

Why did that guy feel the need to say that to her? What did he get out of it? And how can I know which guys are good guys? I would’ve never imagined a guy like that to say something like this. Because I always imagined the creeps would be a drugged up deranged guy who harassed women. But it turns out that’s not the case? Apparently, even well, dressed, fit, attractive guys also harass women. 🤔

I’m not even sure how women can trust men, how do you know which one is a good guy? How do you know who to trust who to date? For me, being a BI guy, I’ve always found nice girls or friends at college/work or similar settings and I always know if there’s a good vibe.

Anyway, I was just shocked that this happens. Wanted to get it off my chest.