How do I provide guidance to my 12 year old on how to navigate toxic comment sections?

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We all know that social media comment sections are one of the most toxic places on the Internet – just look at some subreddits.

With all of the hate speech, spam, scams, angry debates, trolls, and misinformation – I am worried about my 12 year old son’s ability to navigate this all.

What worries you the most? Do you think I need to provide regular guidance or should I just let him learn through experience?

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  2. Joereddit405 Avatar

    teach him how to report comments and not to engage.

  3. cassthesassmaster Avatar

    I wouldn’t let a twelve year old have social media

  4. Aggressive-Coconut0 Avatar

    They get street smart pretty quickly. My kids knew more than I did. That said, I’d show them the beauty of blocking. Teach them not to give out personal info. I know Animal Crossing used to give incentives for doing their internet safety lessons (my kid told me that). It reinforced stuff I know they wouldn’t have listened to if it came from me.

  5. offensiveguppie Avatar

    I taught my kids to hit them where it hurts. There’s nothing better than humbling someone on the Internet enough that they’ll block you/delete their account or comment.