Once again another follow on from my previous posts. Lasts night she said she feels off about us so we talk about it blah blah blah i mention i’ve had these feelings of breaking up. But shit i let the emotions win me over and i’ve told her i’m gonna try to keep going. I don’t know what to do, she sees us differently now and feel like it’s all just downhill from here. She gave me the option to break up and i turned it down giving in to my emotions. I feel like such a cunt.
how do i tell my gf i want to breakup?
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Buy some helium, inhale and say. Baby I am out of here.
Just be honest with her and tell her your true feelings. It’ll work out better in the long run before it gets any way toxic.
Tell her that you are attached to her and thus are reluctant to part, but can’t help but feel like you are going in different directions. You appreciate her letting you break it off earlier, but you chickened out. Losing her won’t be an easy experience even if it feels like parting is the right thing to do. So you apologize for the rollercoaster you have caused to her emotionally and you can only hope she can find it in her heart to forgive you and understand that no ill intention took place. You simply have this nagging feeling that things aren’t working and it would have been so much easier if they did, but alas they aren’t. You are grateful to her for the relationship you had, for all the things you got to experience together and learn from each other and hope you can part amicably. That being said you will totally understand if she needs to block you or avoid you to get some closure on her part and have some time to herself.
Dude, I did not read your first post but you have to confront the bitter truth. I have been in the same situation, you love her as a person and don’t want to hurt her so you want to try again for her sake? It will not regain the feelings you previously had and actually hurts the other person more on the long run.
They know it as well, as they give you an easy way to break up, but love you too much man so are willing to try their last bit of hope on you. Trust me, I have tried a second time multiple times, as I was a coward and avoided confrontation at any cost. It only hurts them more, do not be like I was in my 20s. That guy suck
Edit: read your earlier posts, and please don’t wait to break up for the moment. Girls develop faster mentally during puberty, she already knows what is coming. Please just end it asap, this stranger would be proud of your action of which I didnt have the guts to do on your age
Always hard. Have you considered ghosting?
Tell her to give you her playbook.