That she is intelligent. Looks are all most people care about and they don’t go any deeper. To honestly be able to say a woman is intelligent means you’ve taken the time to get to know them, know their likes and dislikes, their views and opinions. To be able to say they’re intelligent means you put in the extra effort to get to know them beyond superficiality. If you put in that much time, that is a compliment in itself.
Honestly, I think one of the most underrated compliments I’ve gotten is when someone tells me I’m a good listener. I know it sounds simple, but it really means a lot. I remember a few years ago, a close friend of mine was going through some tough stuff, and I just listened to her vent for what felt like hours. At the end of the conversation, she looked at me and said, “You’re such a good listener, I feel better just talking to you.” It stuck with me because I didn’t even realize how much just being there for someone could have that kind of impact. Sometimes you think you need to give advice or solutions, but sometimes just listening is enough.
I’ve also had people say the same to me during tough moments in my own life, and it makes all the difference. I think being able to just let someone unload without judgment or trying to “fix” everything is a huge gift. It’s a compliment that doesn’t always get said enough, but it’s something I’ve come to really appreciate. It’s not flashy, but it’s genuine, and it shows that people recognize the effort and care you put into supporting them emotionally.
I think telling a woman she has a great sense of humor is underrated. It’s such a nice compliment because it shows you appreciate her personality and how she makes others feel.
I feel like the best compliment is to be truly seen and valued for whatever makes you personally unique. So there is no “one” best compliment for all women, because the “best” part is that it’s specific to you and not generic.
My mom tells me I’m too selective with my friendships and I take that as a compliment. Would rather have 3 good friends than 20 fake friends like she does 😬
That someone feels safe around me, either by sharing a heavy secret, or physical safety even, like a rescue at a club or similar situation. Allowing me to protect you makes me feel 200 feet tall 💖
Not sure if it is underrated but I’ve been told twice in the last ten years that someone felt seen or heard by me and it has stayed with me. In a similar vein, another one that stayed with me is that I have made people feel welcome or comfortable when they were out of their depth or uncomfortable.
However, being told by a very shifty Russian fashion buyer that I was “a hard woman for business” will be written on my grave.
That she’s funny. Women are hilarious. No man has ever made me laugh so hard I’ve peed myself but women sure have. Yet somehow culture continues to batter ram us with this constant stereotype that women aren’t funny and can’t take a joke. (At our expense? Elevate your comedy, bro)
Always gives me a huge pep in my step when someone compliments my humor.
For me, it is that I’m not in the competition, Im no threat to another woman, their secrets, beauty, style, intelligence, they are them, and I am me. I feel good when another woman feels safe around me.
A coworker once told me that I am a capable person. It was many years ago when I was very unsure in my abillities and having an imposter syndrome. It made my whole week and I still remember that feeling years later.
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That she is intelligent. Looks are all most people care about and they don’t go any deeper. To honestly be able to say a woman is intelligent means you’ve taken the time to get to know them, know their likes and dislikes, their views and opinions. To be able to say they’re intelligent means you put in the extra effort to get to know them beyond superficiality. If you put in that much time, that is a compliment in itself.
Honestly, I think one of the most underrated compliments I’ve gotten is when someone tells me I’m a good listener. I know it sounds simple, but it really means a lot. I remember a few years ago, a close friend of mine was going through some tough stuff, and I just listened to her vent for what felt like hours. At the end of the conversation, she looked at me and said, “You’re such a good listener, I feel better just talking to you.” It stuck with me because I didn’t even realize how much just being there for someone could have that kind of impact. Sometimes you think you need to give advice or solutions, but sometimes just listening is enough.
I’ve also had people say the same to me during tough moments in my own life, and it makes all the difference. I think being able to just let someone unload without judgment or trying to “fix” everything is a huge gift. It’s a compliment that doesn’t always get said enough, but it’s something I’ve come to really appreciate. It’s not flashy, but it’s genuine, and it shows that people recognize the effort and care you put into supporting them emotionally.
It feels good to be appreciated for more than just looks, especially when someone notices your thoughts and ideas.
I think telling a woman she has a great sense of humor is underrated. It’s such a nice compliment because it shows you appreciate her personality and how she makes others feel.
I feel like the best compliment is to be truly seen and valued for whatever makes you personally unique. So there is no “one” best compliment for all women, because the “best” part is that it’s specific to you and not generic.
I’ve been told I make people comfortable. That’s a huge compliment.
My mom tells me I’m too selective with my friendships and I take that as a compliment. Would rather have 3 good friends than 20 fake friends like she does 😬
“….. I’m gonna listen to you more.”
I was recently told I was interesting. it was very flattering.
That they’re uniquely themselves and comfortable in their own skin.
That someone feels safe around me, either by sharing a heavy secret, or physical safety even, like a rescue at a club or similar situation. Allowing me to protect you makes me feel 200 feet tall 💖
I really like when someone says something like “you have a good point” or “your input is valuable”.
Not sure if it is underrated but I’ve been told twice in the last ten years that someone felt seen or heard by me and it has stayed with me. In a similar vein, another one that stayed with me is that I have made people feel welcome or comfortable when they were out of their depth or uncomfortable.
However, being told by a very shifty Russian fashion buyer that I was “a hard woman for business” will be written on my grave.
Complimenting her style and fashion sense, especially when it pertains to her hairstyle.
To me, I always appreciate compliments that I’m funny. I think intelligence and humor go hand in hand.
That she’s funny. Women are hilarious. No man has ever made me laugh so hard I’ve peed myself but women sure have. Yet somehow culture continues to batter ram us with this constant stereotype that women aren’t funny and can’t take a joke. (At our expense? Elevate your comedy, bro)
Always gives me a huge pep in my step when someone compliments my humor.
The best compliment I’ve received was “You’re the most well-rounded person I know”
For me, it is that I’m not in the competition, Im no threat to another woman, their secrets, beauty, style, intelligence, they are them, and I am me. I feel good when another woman feels safe around me.
A coworker once told me that I am a capable person. It was many years ago when I was very unsure in my abillities and having an imposter syndrome. It made my whole week and I still remember that feeling years later.