I work IT for a few stores in the area. Next to my main office is a Bath and Body Works and the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met works there. I went in for the first time a few weeks ago to get my mom a gift and the woman that helped me find stuff for her was gorgeous. My knees almost buckled when we accidentally made arm to arm contact moving through the store. I don’t know if it was her enchanting me or sensory overload from all the candles and lotion. Probably a bit of both.
We’ve run into each other a few times since then and made small talk outside. She’s so easy to talk to and funny. Her laugh makes me wish I were funnier so I could hear it more. Like music to my ears.
Could be hopeful thinking, but I get the feeling she might be into me too. So on Monday I’m planning on stopping by and asking if she’d like to go out for coffee or something. I haven’t been this nervous asking someone out since I was in high school over a decade ago.
I won’t be asking her out while she’s working. Just putting this here because it’s almost every comment I am getting at this point.
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Best of luck.
Just remember, the worst that can happen is she says no, and you go on with your day.
Yay! Good luck and let us know how it goes!
Dm me I will tell you exactly how to approach her and in what mind frame for the situation but I must ask q first.
good luck big dawg. you gotta believe.
It’s a very bad idea to ask a girl out at her job. Maybe give her the opportunity to show interest in you first. Like asking her if she wants to continue this conversation later or something like that.
Good luck!
Ok, I’ll wheel it out this time…
You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
Report back on your date!
This is sweet. Do it OP!!! The worst she can say is no. Good luck!
I get asked out at my work sometimes. I always politely decline, as I have a boyfriend, but it makes me feel a little lighter for the rest of the day. However, don’t do what this guy did to me last week:
I helped this man. Tall, a little older, real goof ball which I love to see in people. I told “You’re a goof ball! That’s awesome.”
The next day I get a call at work. I never get calls for me there, so when a coworker came up to me and said they were asking for me I was already weirded out. She said all she could hear was him saying my name over and over (she’s hard of hearing) so she went and grabbed me. That’s an odd way to ask for somebody, hard of hearing or not, to get a specific person.
I answer, confused, and he introduced himself as goofball. He asked if he could have my number and I, as politely and direct as I could told him no. He asked if he could give me his number. I said no again. He then said he would see me around [work] sometime.
Which yeah, that’s true, I’m there constantly and see everybody all the time, but it seemed.. threatening. I’ve been carrying a knife since.
Don’t ask her out on the job where she can’t escape. Leave her your name and number on a card and tell her to hit you up after work sometime.
When you ask, maybe mention you know it’s unfortunate she’s at work or something to that effect. People who work retail/customer service often have friendly personas while at work and sometimes can be read as flirtatious. And getting asked out while at work can be annoying. That said, way better to ask then than wait around until you see her outside of her shift like a stalker haha
Nooooooo!!!! They’re all gonna laugh at you!
Good luck!!!
Hope it works out for you, all the best 🙂
So, how are you going to do it?
She must be somebody’s baby. She’s got to be somebody’s baby.
This reads like AI slop to me.
Best of luck! Please update us when you do ask her
Good luck! Really hope it’s a yes 🙂
You can even give her your number and leave the ball in her court if you want to be causal. I’ve had relative success this way.