Why did a guy try being intimate me while I was upset?

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Do they think that will calm a person down? Does it turn them on to see someone emotional?

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  2. gwelfguy Avatar

    This is going to sound shitty, but it’s probably because he thought you were vulnerable.

  3. martinis00 Avatar

    Maybe he was just offering sympathy. It’s no wonder guys don’t which way to behave.

  4. Uneek_Uzernaim Avatar

    He’s emotionally stunted and selfish is likely why. He likely does not know how to soothe and comfort others in non-sexual ways because he can’t do so for himself. The selfishness is immaturity manifesting either as taking advantage of others in need or being unable to read the situation and respond appropriately.

    Is this your partner? What’s the context here?

  5. CaptainAnonymouse72 Avatar

    maybe he thought you were him. Sometimes people provide the kind of support and comfort they wish they had.

  6. mack__7963 Avatar

    because your guard was down, it takes a special kind of low life to sink that low.