Why am I not cumming during sex?

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Basically I lost my virginity last week and we’ve had sex a few times but I haven’t come during any of them. I have no clue why as I am hard and into it just not cumming. Also, after every time we do it I have this crazy feeling where my balls are aching. Maybe it’s because I’ve jacked off too much but idk.

Comments

  1. Hay_Fever_at_3_AM Avatar
    1. It’s new.
    2. You’re used to orgasming from masturbating.
    3. You haven’t figured out how to orgasm from sex yet. It’s not just mechanical, it’s psychological too.
    4. Probably some anxiety too because of it being new
    5. And because you’re thinking too damn much about how you’re not orgasming

    Just relax, have fun, communicate with your partner and make sure they’re having fun, it’ll start happening eventually.

  2. HerbDaLine Avatar

    This is a urologist question.

  3. idkhowbtfmbttf Avatar

    Serial jerking and porn. Stop both.

  4. fireballsack08 Avatar

    That’s bizarre……..normally 1st time = 1 minute man.