There are two mindsets in life. Problem creators and problem solvers. If you spend all your free time creating problems and barriers, then yes, you will die as you are now.
Alternatively, you could switch your mindset into problem solver mode and start making lists.
Start with, why am I broke?
No job, get any available job to start with.
Bad at saving? Open a savings account and set up an automated direct debit. So, you don’t see the money you are saving.
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You realize that right now doesn’t equal the rest of your life
Making money fixes the broke part.
Having sex would fix the virgin part.
Going to the gym will fix the outcast part.
If your username speaks about your pizza-making skills, you won’t be a ‘broke virgin outcast’ for the rest of your life.
But really, you have no idea what the future holds for you. Don’t give up. Just take things day by day.
Get some cash, get some ass, then do it again the next day.
See Rule 2
I’d lean into it and enjoy it. No pressure on you based on what you said.
Complain about it online – proven solution.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
There are two mindsets in life. Problem creators and problem solvers. If you spend all your free time creating problems and barriers, then yes, you will die as you are now.
Alternatively, you could switch your mindset into problem solver mode and start making lists.
Start with, why am I broke?
Then move on to, why am I a virgin?
Bottom line, your mindset is the problem.
You are what you believe you are.