Considering couple’s therapy. Unsure if we are incompatible or if it’s something we can work on. I might also be expecting too much from him.
Right now we are long distance because he is struggling with keeping a stable job. I want a mix of all love languages, he gave me many acts of service and quality time in the first 3 years, then realized he hasn’t been taking care of himself so he shutdown.
Emotional intimacy is completely nonexistent, because my cptsd emotions give him anxiety. And every time we’re together physically, which is like 2x a month now, he needs sex.