Is it okay to kiss a guy if we’re not dating?

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It’s been 3 months since I’ve joined college and there’s this boy who is in the same class as me. We travel a whole hour to college in the same local bus every day. We’ve started texting since then and share reels with each other on IG. Other than that, we don’t talk in the classroom at all, but at the bus station and in the bus, we talk freely without any judgement from classroom students.

So last night, I asked him about his ex and he asked about mine, and it turned out we have something in common. Although we flirt a lot over text and laugh at double meaning jokes all the way home and to college, we’ve decided to kiss each other—and tomorrow is the day.

We’re not dating, we just want to kiss.
Should I kiss him or not? It’s my first kiss btw!

Comments

  1. Melthiela Avatar

    If you want to, why not? If you feel like you want your first kiss to be with a guy you’re dating, then it’s not okay. Don’t be pressured. If you want it, go for it.

  2. literarytrash Avatar

    Pro tip, you can fuck someone without dating them too! Go have fun!!!

  3. HairyHorseKnuckles Avatar

    You can even fuck him and not date him. Your body, your rules

  4. butt_soap Avatar

    No, he’ll turn into a frog

  5. Additional-Safety343 Avatar

    No, God will smite you down for kissing before dating

  6. conga78 Avatar
  7. Butterbean-queen Avatar

    You can kiss anyone you want as long as they are willing.

  8. LeviSalt Avatar

    There are no rules for this kind of thing other than to get consent and to not do anything you don’t want to do. Kiss away, maybe you will end up dating and maybe you won’t.

    Pro tip: slow down and enjoy the moment as much as you can.

  9. ChefArtorias Avatar

    Nothing wrong with that. Planning a kiss sounds a little odd tho lol

    Do you want to date him?