Just stop man
I 23M had this friend 24M in college who was a cool guy to hang out with, eating out outside, playing video games or just chilling together, he was a good friend overall. But anytime a girl was with us his personality would flip 180, he would start insulting me and making rude comments about me, i told him many times that the girls feel uncomfortable when he does this shit but he insists “it’s just a joke bro”.
We were together with this girl 22F at Uni, studying together, she is a cool girl. He started making comments about me being short and skinny, i could tell she wasn’t pleased with his comments. He is just clueless and thinks he will appear “alpha” and “dominant” or some shit. When we went eating, i ordered something a bit expensive. He said “that’s crazy, aren’t you gonna save up for braces”(i have crooked teeth). I responded “is that why you ordered this cheap burger ? cuz you are saving up for that hairline ?”… He tried to laugh it off but it was obvious that he didn’t like it when i clapped back.
When i went home, i checked my phone and found out he blocked me on all social media lol. Good riddance. This guy is way more attractive than me, taller, he has better body and overall he gets more attention from girls than me. I don’t understand why he needed to do this shit ? Any chance you had with these girls is already gone as soon as you started making these comments ! Stop this shit man, we are not in high school anymore.
Just stop.
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I’ve been through this. I have a coworker that before he got his current girlfriend, he would switch up when any remotely attractive woman would show up. He would be chill one second and then start insulting me repeatedly the next. And this happened several times. And once the girl left, he would be normal again. One time, he went so overboard trying to put me down, the girl looked at him and me. She looked disturbed.
If you ever seen that episode of South Park when Wendy goes through puberty and the boys would turn into cavemen when she walked by. They would fight each other. And when she walked away, they would revert back to normal confused. This guy thought that women simply smiling at him and maintain eye contact means they want to fuck.
you just made a point that those are the most insecure mfs and that’s exactly why we don’t like them.
These kinds of guys have been around forever. So insecure and pathetic. Any woman with a brain can sniff out these morons from a mile away. And any woman who falls for it isn’t worth your time, at all.