I’m 36f and a 37m told me women my age are past their prime. It made me really upset, I’ve been going through it and gained about 25 in 2 yrs and feeling there’s no hope left for me and I can’t seem to get myself to lose weight etc.
I’m 36f and a 37m told me women my age are past their prime. It made me really upset, I’ve been going through it and gained about 25 in 2 yrs and feeling there’s no hope left for me and I can’t seem to get myself to lose weight etc.
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Not your friend.
Sounds like that friend has passed their friendship prime and needs to be dumped out with the bathwater
Start your weight loss by losing the dead weight that is your “friend”. You don’t keep people who are intentionally hurtful around. Why does his opinion matter more than your own.
What a dick. Meanwhile men are drooling over hot women in their forties like Kim k
classic projection of an enemy. run! 😂
He sounds like a shitty “friend”.
What makes him a friend?
you can drop approx 160 pounds easily by not having him as a friend anymore!
You are on your own journey and that means you set the pace of growth you want for yourself. Don’t let others slap a timestamp on your life.
I agree with others- doesn’t sound like much of a friend. Sounds like they should have been offering their support rather than their judgement. I’m sorry you had to go through that.
Shouldn’t be a friend anymore. Who are they to decide if you’re past your prime??
Friends don’t say this type of thing.
Sweetie, I’m 60 years old, so please grant me this indulgence. I love to share pithy quotes, so here’s one for you:
“Learn to love the sound of your feet walking away from things [or relationships] not meant for you.” 👣
🙏
I’m sure he’s God’s gift to women 🙄
Don’t let something some dud tells you drag you down. Just like a fine wine, we all get better with age.
What a loser.
he’s not your friend
You can change anything in your life. Start with loosing that negative friend.
He is, I believe, a piece of shit for saying something like that.
Bah don’t listen to him. Only you get to decide when your prime is. 38 is young still. You also get to decide what your prime entails. Is it running a marathon? Join a team and slowly slowly train. Is it taking singing lessons? Writing a book? Whatever. YOU get to decide YOU. His opinion don’t matter. Tell him to shut up and deal with his Viagra prescription bc it’s all limp dick from here for him. And then flip you hair and go on with your life.
Does he have a partner, I wonder?
That is no friend. Why are you just accepting his shitty opinion as if it’s fact?
I mean, so what? 36 year men are technically past their prime too. We all age
That’s dumb lol don’t listen to him. I’m 35 and no one has told me this. We are just getting started! To add. Did he ever like you, and you turned him down?
It’s hard to engage in self-care with friends like that around.
DTMFA
So, ex-friend
Sounds like he’s projecting lmao. Some men have a hard time dealing with aging and project it onto women. Also, what is “prime” to him? You are fertile until you go through menopause…which doesn’t typically start until around mid late forties or later. If he is referencing appearances…Megan Markle is 40 and looks better than some 20 somethings I’ve seen. Demi Moore, Eva Langoria, Gabrielle Union, Angela Bassett, etc.
Ew.
Tell him the negging has to stop and you’re not going to bang him.
36 past it, my arse.
That man is not your friend. You aren’t past your prime.
Idk how y’all listen to these men without laughing in their faces
He’s not your friend and he’s not worth associating with.
That’s not a friend.
What? You’re just getting started! Definitely not past your prime. That friend has a poor sense of what the term means.
With friends like this, who needs enemies
What a jerk. Is he single by chance? He might be projecting. You should tell him you’re friendship is past it’s prime.
What load of garbage.
Absolute garbage.
Ridiculously misogynistic garbage.
Your VALUE isn’t based on AGE.
VALUE is based on the person, not their meat-bag.
If I carry toxic garbage in a new purse, it doesn’t make the toxic garbage suddenly valuable.
F this guy, he is not a friend and he absolutely has no value nor the ability to assess the value of someone else. If anything- this is projection on his part. Women in their 20s aren’t dtf with him, so he has to drag another person down.
past their prime
Men like this expose what they think of women: sex objects, incubators, etc. You are not a milk jug. You do not have an expiration date other than the one we all (including men) share as mortal beings.
Not a friend.