I’ve never been eaten out before and I wanted to do it with someone special. I realllllly like this 1 guy, I think I’m too emotional about him and he told me he wants to eat me out. He has done it before to 2 random girls as well but he said it was horrible experience and he stopped in 1 minute … so idk if he’s saying this cuz he really likes me…. or he just likes giving head.
What are the CHANCES he likes giving head to random women? Or do majority men like to do it only for the girls they have feelings for?
Edit- Y’all are missing the point of the question. I’m asking if men like to do it for ANY girl or only the girls they like
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Me personally i love it
I remember initially, I was worried about the taste and just generally not enjoying it.
When I got around to it happening, seeing her wriggle around in ecstasy was amazing and the taste was of … Victory
Absolutely love going down on my wife and previous lovers.
Hell yeah. Something about being the guy who gets to give the pleasure, watch her squirm and make all the fun noises. What’s not to love. Just you know make sure you’re cleaned up etc.
It’s the same as blow jobs. It has to be clean. Otherwise, it’s not that great. And on top of that, it’s nice if the girl isn’t just a sack of potatoes that doesn’t move or respond in any way.
Well, he told you he did NOT like it with those random women.
However, I see some red flags with your post. You asked if it means he likes you or just likes random. It could be neither of those things. While he might be very attracted and like you just fine, it’s also possible that he does not like oral sex and is going to eat you out and then hate it so you’ll feel bad about yourself.
There are people who do stuff like that. If you decide to go forward with this, please know before you do that IF that happens, it has NOTHING to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with him being a misogynist.
And if you both have a great time, I will be thrilled to be wrong.
It’s suspicious that he said didn’t like it with the 2 other girls but wants to do it with you. He’s definitely trying to play a mind game there. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t really like you but I would be skeptical. As a guy I have seen a lot of guys play that angle with girls. If you are okay with it maybe just being casual then go for and have a good time but be careful about getting attached
For me personally – it’s fine with a random woman.
But if it’s with someone i am really into then it’s the best feeling ever.
I’d believe what he says.
To ANY woman? No. I only enjoy it when im with someone im in a relationship ship with.
Eating people out is one of lifes greatest joys 😩 but yeah me personally I only do sexual stuff with people I like
I’ve never done anything with a girl I didn’t like romantically first, so I can’t really answer THAT aspect. I don’t and have never done casual sex. But I’ve gone down on pretty much every partner I HAVE been with, and enjoyed doing it with all of them. So I don’t think it’s an exclusive thing in any particular way, no.
Yes.
TLDR: Yes
Any? Fuck no
For me, I thoroughly enjoy it because it’s a way to get my wife off, which is my favorite thing to do.
I love it😅
my parner constantly wants to do it, he often jokes at lunch or dinner if he can get “the dessert” and he digs in until I literally beg him to stop (usually after first orgasm), and then “he brings the cavalry” and enters
I only like to do that for women I like. I also hate hookups, so I’m not sure how that skews the results
If I like her then I wanna do it. And I’m only with girls I like.
It’s not an emotional thing for me, no. It’s not any different than a blowjob in my mind. There’s an art and enjoyment to both, but I don’t really have a prerequisite. I just like doing it, the same way I can enjoy sex without a deep emotional attachment (though that attachment can obviously elevate the experience when it is present).
Yes a lot of men love doing it, it’s the best thing ever. It’s fun, and extremely erotic and intimate.
I never did oral on a hookup or one night stand even if I had the desire to do so. Only two long term girlfriends and my wife I have given oral to.
I only like doing any type of sexual act with a female that I like … If there is no attraction I mean it’s not going to be fun for either one of us LOL
Oral is a regular part of sex for me, I pretty much do it automitically as foreplay with any girl I’m with unless they say they don’t like it or tell me not to for whatever reason.
I know some people see oral as more intimate than vaginal sex, I have an ex who told me she would be more upset if another girl went down on me than if we just had sex. I personally don’t get that, but everyone is different.
Hmmmm..its a hard question to answer. Some of us? 100% any woman pretty much. Thats me. The fact that he hasnt enjoyed it in the prior 2 however? That indicates he wants to do this because he cares about you rather then enjoying it.
I love going down on women. If I was single I’d have no objections to giving platonic head to any woman I was attracted to. Heck, being free use for oral on women friends would be awesome.
I love giving head. I’ve done it to women I’ve just met and long term partners. It’s fucking phenomenal, everything about it. But I’m just me, idk how your guy feels.
I wouldn’t do it if I at least didn’t want them.
I enjoy it when I’m getting a reaction, and some feedback. I want those fingers in my hair, some “just like that”, “faster/slower” “add some fingers”, and no reason to stay silent in my account.
All depends on their hygiene.
I’m a woman, straight, 34 years old. From what my partners have taught me, every man is different!! Just as every woman is different. We are all individuals with different preferences for what we like and don’t like. I have a bff whose boyfriend has literally NEVER eaten her out and it’s ruining their relationship. Although having had many sexual partners, he is very prude about sex in general. He’s super vanilla and thus they are not a good match sexually. No passion, no fire there and she wants that (as most of us do!)
Some men prefer being intimate (or prefer doing certain sexual acts like eating out) with partners they love or have an emotional connection to, other men are down for whatever!!!
It’s safe to say that NOT ALL men will eat out ANY woman as it may not fit their preferences for an emotional connection or vice versa!! Also safe to say, we all need to be keeping our junk clean. If you think you have swamp ass before an encounter, just go wash that shit. Ain’t nobody gonna be mad about that!!!
There are some I love to give it to, but there have been plenty I have very much NOT wanted to. Sometimes poor hygiene, sometimes just because it was always stubbly so it was like rubbing my face on sandpaper and hurt.
Depends what you mean by “like”. Do you mean do we only like it with a woman we have a crush on, then no.
If by like you mean by only woman we find attractive? ….. Possibly? I can’t honestly say I’ve been sexual with someone I don’t find attractive so idk lol
Also the one requirement for all of the above is hygiene.
I think ITS FUCKING HOT! I do it for my own pleasure as well as hers obviously. But I’m 100% all about but if she’s not clean or it’s funky down there I’ll usually pass or really limit my time
If im doing it with her belly up, i can feel her butt with ny chin and if her belly is facing down, can feel her butt with my face, its glorious.
I love giving oral if they’re clean down there.
Something about the legs blocking my ability to hear anything, the hair pulling and the taste turns me on
Some guys like doing it period.
Some guys only like doing it only for women they really like.
Some guys don’t like doing it at all.
A few things that I think understanding would really help you though.
Male arousal works a little differently than most women. Women tend to require more context for arousal, it doesn’t have to be actual romantic love nessesarily, but they are seldom just automatically aroused by penises. This is part of the reason why they generally prefer erotica to visual porn. Conversely most men are instantly and automatically aroused by certain parts of the woman. I would say for most, but definitely not all men, this includes vaginas. If we see an attractive vagina, we are aroused, no additional context required, even though context can definitely make it a lot more arousing.
You will be much more successful in relationships and with men if you stop second guessing them. If he’s offering or especially if he’s indicating he WANTS to do it, take him at his word. Get out of your head with all the reasons why he might not really want it, or anything like that. If he has an issue, he’ll let you know. In the meantime, just trust him.
Now for the part that might make you a little self conscious, but really shouldn’t because of #2 if you handle it right and are in the right head space. Vaginas each have different tastes and smells. Most of the time a guy doesn’t like giving head, it’s because of bad experiences with the taste or smell. Try your absolute hardest not to be self conscious about this. Some men can’t handle the smell and taste of most vaginas. It doesn’t nessesarily mean you taste bad or off. There are some girls who hate going down on guys for the same reason, but as a bisexual guy, I can tell you, there is a lot more range to how vaginas taste and smell than guy’s spunk. Also vaginas are much more prone to infections and imbalances, if something smells or tastes off it’s a good thing if he tells you. Try not to be too embarrassed, and don’t shut down about it. I was with a girl who had an imbalance early in our relationship, I tried as delicately as possible to inform her, but as a result, she wouldn’t let me go down on her again even after the imbalance was cleared up. Don’t be like that. Don’t shut down. TRUST him to decide what he does and doesn’t want to do himself.
As long as they have bathed it wouldn’t matter if I had a relationship or not with the person
They all taste different – some good and some not so good. Depends on their time of the month.
It doesn’t really depend on the feelings I’d have for that person, rather in the level of trust I have for them. But that goes for any sexual interaction, Ichave to build a certain connection and level of trust with the person first.
Also, hygiene is extra important in this case, in my opinion (just as important as it is the other way around). But that might just be me, some would argue sex can’t be completely “clean” in terms of hygiene, and one has to accept it in the context of sexual interactions, and it would be a viable argument.
I dated a man a few years ago who had never gone down on a woman until he met me. He never had the urge or desire, but for whatever reason I changed his mind at 40. He said he genuinely didn’t think it was a big deal, and that it was “submissive behavior” (fuckin Army Rangers, I’ll never date one again lol). It swiftly became his favorite pastime, and when we went our separate ways I urged him to continue with his next lady.
Big time
Hygienic women
Maybe I’m weird – I rather go down on her and have her squirm than anything else in bed. Regardless if shes my girlfriend or just a hookup. As long as she keeps it clean down there, I don’t care if there is hair as long as its kept tidy. Once it was the day she got her period, I didnt say anything, I just starting thinking about David Goggin’s book and I kept going. She saw the blood, that was gross honestly. She was a tinder girl.
So to answer your question; Yea I’ll pretty much go down on any girl
I would only want to do it with someone I had real feelings for.
It’s as subjective as anything can be.
Personal opinion. The only hesitation would be hygiene. Otherwise, there’s nothing better than pleasuring a lady.
I’d give anything to experience this
To answer your question, OP, I don’t think there is any blanket answer. As with anything in the bedroom, it’s different from person to person. Some people only want to give/receive oral sex from someone they have a deep connection with. Some people do it because it feels good and they like doing it, and the connection isn’t as much of a factor. The same could be said for sex in general. If you have concerns, you should talk about it with your partner. I will always advocate for communicating 100% of the time.
Most people in general don’t like just going around giving head to randos.
If you’re looking for this situation to be validation about if he has feelings for you, look elsewhere. Or just ask him.
Because worst case scenario he just thinks you’re attractive and wants to have sex. Best case is that he likes you back. Either way, you can’t verify feelings about someone you know irl by asking a millions of strangers online about something emotionally irrelevant.
You say people are missing the point, yet you didn’t make it a point of asking what you really intended on asking?
Yes for the right woman!
Depends on the body and the pubic grooming..I don’t think a lot of guys just eat random cooch but I could be wrong.
Who the girl is matters a little bit, but so does the state of the vagina. If you are showered, and groom yourself down there it is a better experience. I would also ask him why it was such a bad time, as stopping after one minute is wild. That’s not even participation trophy worthy for foreplay.
I don’t think it’s really anything special anymore it’s more dependent on whether one or both parties really enjoys/wants it
Yes I love giving it … though perhaps not ANY woman, just the special one
Me personally I’d enjoy it, my boyfriend loves it too tbh it feels more intimate
Love it!!! Sometimes it has a sour taste n bit bitter but I don’t mind it. Normally it’s best fresh out the shower for best taste.
My husband loves it. I enjoy receiving sometimes, but this man could spend an hour or more down there.
From a woman’s perspective, I love giving oral to a woman. The taste is amazing and the pleasure they get is also fantastic.
The majority of (not all) straight men enjoy some level of eating a woman out. Without a lot more context we can’t say why his experience was so bad. If you’re nervous about it, I wouldn’t risk it. Not because there may be something “wrong” on your end, but because there might be something about it he doesn’t like with any woman, no matter how he feels about her.
If you decide to go through with it, talk to him really in depth first. You should absolutely explore why he disliked the others so much. Some guys just don’t enjoy it and that is ok.
Omg I love it. Any chance I get with my wife I do it.
I rarely am in bed with someone that I’m not in aseruous relationship with but as long as they are fresh and into it I enjoy it. Each woman may be a little different but of course there are a few techniques that are pretty much universal and you can have them over the top a few times pretty quickly or tease them for a bit. I enjoy sex the most if my partner is enjoying herself. And it’s always good to make their legs twitch a couple times before you pile drive them and pull their hair soank their ass bright red….,lol.
You answer your own question in your edit. No, actually, we’re not drawn to strange vagina like it’s magnetic, lmao. If we find a person attractive, it’s just like any other kind of sex, and if we actually like a person we might do it for the emotional pleasure. Do you suppose that your guy friend wasn’t attracted to those previous girls? Has he said as much, or did he say he just didn’t enjoy the experience (i.e. swamp crotch) with them?
I love it when she grabs my head and just shoves me into it during her orgasm.
Not any no. For my gf it’s one of my favorite things to do, it’s almost what I look forward to most.
I love it as long as she’s clean
I do enjoy eating girls out, but if there’s a pungent unpleasant odor i would rather not.
I want to do it with every girl I’ve been with, no matter how long we’ve been together
My boyfriend offered to eat me out the first time we had sex. But because of a cut on his lip I told him we’d get around to it. We’re both clean, but I mainly just wanted to avoid any unnecessary issues.
A few months go by, and he never does it, and I ask him why, he says “he’s never done it”, “he’s terrible at it” and that he “doesn’t like doing it”. I don’t push, but TBH I’m really missing it, as being eaten out is one of my greatest pleasures.
One day when he’s drunk, he does it, but only for 30 seconds. It’s good. But he says once again that “he sucks at it”
Another few months go by and I’m giving him the blowjob of his life and suddenly he manouvers me into a 69 and starts going at it.
It did not feel like he hated it, and it definitely did not feel like he was terrible at it. He was drunk as well during this time. I only moved out of the way because I desperately needed to fuck him.
He did it again the next day, and when I told him that I really enjoyed it and he said “Yes, it really turns me on when I do
So, yes men do like to eat women out.
Here’s the truth. When it comes to oral on a woman, it will take about 5 seconds to figure out if you are going to enjoy it. As long as a girl is clean, I’m good to go.
Your question is specific to the guy. There’s no way to answer for all guys accurately. Do girls enjoy giving oral sex to ANY man? Unanswerable. I’ve been with ladies who could get off giving a blowjob. I’ve been with ladies where the thought of putting a penis near their mouth was a huge turn off.
There’s simply no way to answer this with a yes or no.
For some guy the idea or action of going down on a woman can be a turn on. There may be women who the guy is turned off by going down in though.
For some guys the idea or action of going down on a woman can be a turn off. There may be women who the guy may be turned on by going down on though.
I think it all depends on the guy. Some prefer women they are with, some are fine with strangers. However, im 100% sure all men love clean cooters. So make sure you’re clean & fresh before hand.
I usually make a rule for any adventure that she knows if she’s blowing me, I’m eating her out, or if she doesn’t want to blow me, I’m eating her out.
It’s a good deal, I eat her out when I want and I eat her out when she wants
I only wish it was a constant adventure
Yes, it’s a great feeling when you make a girl cum every single time.
I wouldnt say any woman….but maybe 99.99% of them.
I’ve had multiple guys want to ONLY give me oral. That was their pleasure. We did other things at other times but they truly enjoyed doing it even if it meant nothing else for them. My husband being one of them.
It depends. Some girls I like smell or taste not so good and i like doing it but sometimes i can’t
Some girls i dont like (so much, i like everyone i fuck with lol) smell and taste extremely good and i love eating out
I would say don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with. If you’re not sure if he really likes you or this is just a fling then just wait.
Alternatively it might not be the best your first time regardless of whether you’re just any girl to this guy or someone special.
I’ll be honest that I was always more into it if it’s someone special. Like my wife got my best performance when we were dating and she still does.
What do you mean by random? This guy doesn’t seem random to me. You are both attracted to each other. Experiment and give it a go? I think your concern may be you have feelings for him and enjoy it and he is just practicing, you will get hurt.
I enjoy giving a lady i am attracted oral and making her get off, but it’s also not a failure to me if she wants to do something else. Sometimes they just don’t feel attractive, on period, or overly stimulated.
The “any” part really opens up this discussion.
Does the any mean anyone regardless of what’s going on down there with flavor, freshness etc? Just wash the outer bits with mild soap and water before expecting action and the rest should be self-cleaning enough for pheromones to do the rest of the person is into you.
Does the any mean anyone regardless of if I know them? I’m in customer service and I’ve never given service that good even if I’ve thought about it from time to time 😊
My opinion probably doesn’t count as a girl but I absolutely love going down on another girl. Obviously being together and in love amplifies it, but back in the day I did enjoy it regardless of closeness just as long as everyone has good personal hygiene, but that goes for everything, not just oral sex.
It’s a great feeling knowing you’re making someone else feel good and I understand being self conscious (I’m self conscious if a girl is going down on me too) but I just remind myself that I love giving so it’s possible others do too, and they wouldn’t do it if they didn’t want to.
I’ve never had any problem with it, I honestly enjoy it. If you receive oral it should be reciprocated.
I like to do it…what gets me is when they don’t want to reciprocate.
Very few people would enjoy giving oral sex to any random person, even if limited to people who are age appropriate for them and of a gender they are sexually attracted to.
Now if you limit it to just people that the individual finds sexually attractive and desires to have sex with, you’ll get a much higher number, though it still won’t be universal.
I personally love it. However, there have been a few women who were pretty rank down there. It’s not just men who need to keep their nether regions clean.
I can’t have sex super frequently bc of my joint issues and nerve damage, so we only have sex like twice a week, but on the days in between, my husband will sometimes ask if he can eat me out, literally just to enjoy eating me out
He doesn’t expect me to give him head in return, he doesn’t expect sex, he just enjoys getting me off and then snuggling me after.
After multiple relationships full of sexual coercion, and being shamed for not “putting out” (while also never having an orgasm from those exes) it’s honestly really reassuring to know that it’s not transactional and he actually enjoys it 😂
I absolutely love it.
I think the important question is: what do you want and need to be satisfied sexually.
Tbh, this guy sounds like he doesn’t care much about your pleasure. And as you can read in the reactions, more than enough guys who do love pleasuring someone! Get someone who is enthusiastic about your pleasure!
Theres a reason why 88 is better than 69. Cause some actually prefer it.
I won’t eat a girl out unless there’s commitment and I’m 99% sure of where her last 10 fucks have come from lol.
Not any woman! Go to the doctor people!!! I was with a woman once and she never went for checkups. She had a yeast infection, that was a disgusting discovery.
I could live with my face between my wife’s legs. I love everything about it, I can’t get enough of her scent, her taste, playing with her happy button, everything.
A random woman? No thanks. Doesn’t do anything for me.
If I were presented with the chance to decide if I wanted to eat food or pussy 3 times a day, I’d probably starve to dead quick lol.
Yes….. idk, no further comment needed XDD
If I’m willing to have sex with them, I’m definitely willing to eat them out. Honestly it’s just part of sex for me. I almost never don’t do it.
Vagina eating is a beautiful thing.
Only girls I like of course
Me personally, give head to any girl? HELLLL NAHHH
To the girl I love? I’d eat her all day and still want more. And that’s for my pleasure. It really helps that my girl is super hygienic.
Tldr: yes to any but someone special is better.
I could have an entirely satisfied sex life with just oral. I love giving head as much as I love getting head and would do it with any girl. Though I do think with wife it’s the best because I know her so well I can really build up the experience.
Before I get comments, I’m not saying ALL men are like this.
However, there are some men who view giving oral as a “favor” implies they are owed a sexual favor in return. So they’ll offer to just give you oral, as if there’s no string attached. Then, when they’re done, they’ll imply the woman should return the favor.
I won’t do it for just any girl.
I gotta like her, she has to be attractive to me we have to have something. I wouldn’t just kiss or sleep with any girl either. Same rules ^^
Yes
Source: Me, a guy
I enjoyed it quite a bit.
No only to my top crushes
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every guy i’ve dated likes to give it- i do not like receiving it
Yes
Except for any sort of situation that I’d be cheating on my partner. This is more intimate than intercourse imo.
Also, the woman needs to be healthy (e.g. no yeast infection, etc.) and reasonably hygienic – I’ll go down in ya right after some exercise, but 5 hours AFTER getting all sweaty, I’m going to ask you to get a shower.
Source: me – a dude who loves to eat pussy.
Yeah It’s one of my favorite snacks, it’s incredibly satisfying at least for me making someone wiggle and ecstatic. And if the mood is right I’ll do it unless something tips me off that I shouldn’t be with that individual than No. So on the menu unless I think the lady isn’t safe/clean but then all my interest dies as well
A pleasure of being alive
I would be highly suspicious of any person (male or female) that would randomly just put anyone’s genitalia in their mouths.
I’ve had oral from strangers and they ate it up
Eating that gagoosh daily wym?
I literally moaned first time I went down on a girl. I don’t just enjoy it, I LOVE IT!
Some love it, some don’t.
It’s my favorite and I always let her know I’m an available seat should the need arise.
I’m not a guy but I think they do it mostly for the woman they like. And probably once in a while for randoms. But if he really doesn’t care and he just love having sex, I would say probably for anyone.
Who doesnt love umami.
No, it is a very intimate act that is only enjoyable when done with someone you care about.
It’s no more exclusive than any other sex act. Some men like doing things with whoever they can, some men only like intimacy with a romantic partner. What he’s done with women before you really has no bearing outside of his willingness to try things. He might like doing that for you more than them or he might not, won’t know til he tries.
For what else it’s worth my husband has always been very enthusiastic about it with me. He doesn’t wait for me to ask, he goes for it when the mood and timing seem right. I’m also a bisexual woman. I don’t go for casual encounters so every woman I’ve been with has been a girlfriend, but I’ve looked forward to doing that with them. Only ran into one I didn’t enjoy it and it was a matter of hygiene.
An almost stranger wanted to pay me to let him, so I’d say yeah.
In my experience, only to girls they are very close to.
It’s entirely down to the individual: personally no I don’t enjoy it almost ever, because hygiene is a big deal to me and let’s be honest, the place in the human body by far with the highest bacteria is the vagina. I know many guys however who love nothing more than eating a girl out, for them it’s a massive turn on and they love it.
It depends on the guy. Sorry.
I absolutely love it but I will admit that the look of it does factor into my enthusiasm
Going down on a girl is what drew the line for me between “I might just be bi” and “I’m real fuckin gay”. I. Love. Eating. A. Girl. Out. The control behind the pleasure and getting to show her how fuckin pretty she is and sounds.
All the girls I’ve gone down on have been different, I’ve had different attachment/feelings for and they all tasted like a fucking princess.
That being said I like to have some level of a connection with a girl before that happens- it’s not that they don’t all deserve the best treatment but if I know your brain a little I wanna treat you accordingly and I’m much more motivated to make it a tailored experience. Idk I think I’m rambling but now I wanna call her…….yeah I should call her..
Yes. More than I can ever put into words.
It’s like cooking a home-cooked meal or driving to the airport. Happy to do it for my wife. But a bit much for a stranger.
Hell yeah. The goal is to make my wife lose consciousness.
I’ve always said, the more I love them, the better they taste.
To any girl? No. Definitely not. Men are selective about their partners, as are women. The guy you like probably realized he was not into those girls, which is why he stopped himself from continuing. He wants to do this with you because he knows he likes you.
I love eating my girlfriend wouldn’t eat my coworkers or someone random
I love a bit of tongue every now and again, especially when “Said” tongue is super talented.
Both my “X” and recent “S.O” enjoyed going to town before the actual deed, they couldn’t get enough.
Edit. Both my partners were “Anal” about hygiene, and fair enough too.
I was told that if the “Woman’s” hygiene wasn’t up to “scratch” than it’s a big “NOPE”
I’m sure there are some who do with any woman. Any vagina. But there are also different types of vaginas and different strokes for different folks, right?
I, can only speak from experience, but, I appreciate a certain kind of vagine and woman. I couldn’t just do that with anyone.
I don’t know, I’ve only done it to two.
Hate me all you want. This is my personal preference, but I only get enthusiastic about it if the woman has…. nice looking labia minora. It’s a visual thing for me, personally.
If he stopped after 1 minute DO NOT expect anything special from that guy. There are those of us who do enjoy giving but even on the bad times we are going more than a minute. This guy is still trying to figure out if he likes it or not and wants to use you as a test subject. Heads up, he doesn’t like it and just doesn’t want to admit it yet.
I’m eating that pussy like a thirsty bulldog hurburglehaijeah
You can’t generalize what guys like. They all like different things, no two are the same.
No. Not any woman. If she smells bad vaginally my mouth isn’t going there (nor my cock either).
Just keep good hygiene down there and it will happened when it’s meant to be.
Has to be the same as women and blow jobs, yeah?
Here’s something I’ve noticed when giving head. The first time, it can taste nasty. Maybe even the next time, and the time after that. But the longer you stay with the same person, the more delicious they become.
Weird, right?
Apparently the guy I was with says is submissive for him to do it to me but I have to give him a bj.
I don’t have much casual sex these days being as I’m married but I’m not going down on randoms unless I’m really attracted to them or the energy is really good. I for sure am not going to endorse going down on just ANY partner. He likes you and he wants to fuck you. That’s generally the source of a random offer like that. If he has said he had bad experiences doing it in the past he is demonstrating interest, comfort and trust. Up to you what you do next. He sounds game.
If I was on a date and sex was going to happen, yes I’d be planning on eating her out if she would let me.
As a receiver, my boyfriend frequently leans over and asks to eat me out, unprovoked. Pretty sure he likes it.