im having a really crap time revising for exams and not sleeping well and crying all the time and i just need someone to tell me ill be okay because im so stressed out if i don’t get good grades i won’t be able to leave home
im having a really crap time revising for exams and not sleeping well and crying all the time and i just need someone to tell me ill be okay because im so stressed out if i don’t get good grades i won’t be able to leave home
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Sweetheart, I love that you have a plan, and you are working the plan. Well done, you – you are further ahead than most.
Okay, here’s what you do: remember you can have more than one shot at this. If you fail (and I know you will work hard not to, because this matters), you can take the courses again.
It’s okay to cry.
It’s okay to be so stressed out you want to vomit.
Work the plan.
Study.
Get sleep (your brain processes info while you sleep).
Do your absolute level best and when it’s over, either you will have succeeded, or you will know how to get through it better next time.
I send you a biiiiig hug!
Exam revision is tough and stressful, for sure. I’m sorry you’re having such a rough ride with it. Big hugs. You got this. You sound motivated and resilient. You will get thru this. You will come out the other side. I’m rooting for you. Have another hug.
Do your best, then set the books aside, watch a movie or episode of your favorite show, and get a good night’s sleep.
A friend of mine says, “If at first you don’t succeed, fail better next time.”
Sure it’d be nice to pass everything the first time around and be able to move out on your own, but if you have to do something over, it just means a year or so delay.
Remember, the little glimmers through your day are sent from the universe, the happy notes to show you that your life ahead can get better. Pause and breathe after you cry to just listen to your own being. You are remarkable and bring your own shine into the world.