Mentally unwell girls that don’t want to work on themselves. I have a lot of patience, and I will work through any treatment a girl needs as long as she gets the help she needs, but not if she just lets it go.
“daddy’s princess” she wanted me to spend a lot of money on her and would not appreciate small details, she has never ever worked and didn’t know the effort it took to make money
Festival girls. I never felt a sense of calm when they went out. Between the drugs, the revealing clothes, and the super late nights.
I never wanted to go to those, but I would stay up for hours worried my partner would be raped or OD or kidnapped.
I trusted her to not cheat on me, but I didn’t trust her to keep herself safe.
Anyone named Shannon, or my mother’s name. The women who’s every boyfriend was a problem but them, and they were all “narcissistic”…. But then you quickly find out in the fuck around loop.
Obsessive gym bro as in 2-3 hours 7 days a week. There’s keeping in shape and healthy and then there’s I’m insecure so I lift like a maniac. And big trap muscles. That screams I’m on roids. That’s a nope for me.
Liberal feminist women. They will lie to you about loving you and then leave you while you’re planning your wedding over political bs thar has no bearing over the relationship.
Women with hyper religious families. I dated one and her Dad made her cry because he preached at her that I was leading her down the wrong path. He went on for hours apparently and made her cry. Apparently a dude whose got a solid career, owns a house, and treats her like an equal instead of property is the wrong path.
My fiancée’s Dad is religious too and wasn’t super stoked when she moved in but when I asked for his permission(I didn’t need it but I can bend to tradition a bit) he said he would be honored to have me as part of the family. He understands respect and love are more important than worshiping some dumb religion.
Stoner guy. Absolutely no issue with people who smoke a lot of weed, but I personally don’t like how it makes me feel so I don’t use it and am not interested.
Being with a heavy weed user meant so much of his time was spent smoking or related activities, and it just cut into actually having quality time together. He was a good guy, and I wish him happiness with a stoner girl of his dreams
Engineers. Not because engineers are bad people. I just know way too much about bridges now. People think I like bridges. I don’t. I just keep hearing about them and can’t unlearn all these bridge facts. I’ve somehow dated a civil, structural and an aerospace engineer. I’m not trying to find these men. They just keep finding me. And are impressed with my engineering knowledge.
The “nonchalant” type of guy.
Tall men (I don’t actively search for 6ft men but they all have this weird size thing. I’m over it)
Soccer players. (That time in college was hell. Massive cheater)
And culturally speaking, mommys boys who have a mom that’s obsessed with them and hate any woman that “steals” their boy.
At first it was fun, shower together, sleep in tight spaces, everywhere together. But it gets old fast if it just keep happening all the time, must eat together, must go here and there together, get too close not only to my friends but also my family.
HR managers. Any profession that gaslights people for a living is a “thank you, no” in my social circles. All HR are phony gaslighters, its how they protect the corp.
Long haired inked gothy band frontpeople. You’d think I’d have learned the first time. Nope. Unfortunately in my circles that demographic makes up a statistically significant percentage of the population 😅
My last 2 ex boyfriends were both from Wisconsin, moved to the same exact city in Missouri (.5 miles between their places), and had 5 letter last names that started with the same letter.
So somethings gotta be different with the next one.
Women who don’t clean where they live. I keep my apartment clean. I do my dishes after i eat. I dated a women who refused to clean up after herself, and it was just disgusting.
I’m a bit wary of people who take advice from social media influencers – especially with things that SOUND clever but make no sense if thought about or fall apart with just a bit of examination
More so if I get flak for pointing it out
I get approached by younger women a lot and while that makes me hesitant enough, to some degree they all seem to listen to these absolute fing intellectual kiddie-pools who care about seeming smart for clicks (And would be absolutely called out on their harmful bs if they weren’t pretty)
My own generation. Gen Z normalized bullying as a culture(“cringe” culture, and the fear of being “cringe” aka different as a result) and telling people to kill themselves online at a more alarming rate. I’ve been online for 23 years, don’t tell me it’s always been this way bc sure it was bad but… I see it everywhere now. I can’t fathom dating someone who has a high chance of shamelessly telling a fellow person to “jump” over a disagreement online, without me ever knowing.
Women who are not able to control their emotions. If they hear/see/feel something off, they immediately burst out, and have to say something about it; doesn’t matter who’s there, or how they say it.
They’re not able to process what they’re feeling, and share it in a calm and collected way.
P.S. I see that they do this in front of people they’re comfortable with most. So their partner especially, or their parents/siblings, will be the ones to get hurt by this the most, and not any third person.
An aspiring musical theater actor. Everything was a performance and he managed to make every conversation about Broadway. At my family events, he would take over the conversation and make it about musicals, and if someone changed the subject he’d bring it right back to Broadway.
I love musical theater but damn it got annoying so quick.
The perpetual moochin off their parents and me type, but I tolerate it cuz their going after their hot. Fuck that. They’re insecure underneath, and frankly they don’t bring enough to the table.
Anybody that makes one aspect of their personality their identity. You are more than just that. And if that’s all that you are or want to be…. It’s going to get old real, real fast.
If they break up almost a year ago with their ex and you’re their next relationship and they tell you that they’re still hurting from that breakup and that they’re not sure if they believe in love the same way they did before then stop right there and don’t take it further unless you can handle just sex and no emotional attachment.
Get it out of your head that they’ll feel the love you feel for them just because you feel it. Or that being with you will heal them and then they’ll love you in the way you want to be loved. Small chance over time it could happen but high chance you’ll be there competing with someone they’ve put on a higher pedestal than you and you’ll only be hurt in the process.
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If they are nothing but their problems. It’s okay to vent, but that can’t be the only thing you are doing in your life.
Guys with lifted trucks… Is that a type? And specifically anyone named Jason…
Skater boys but I LOVE THEMMMM 😫
Pagan e-girls
Emotionally unavailable. I’m not trying to decode mixed signals like it’s a side quest.
Gym bros who lowkey have an eating disorder and also a god complex
Free spirit, manic pixie dream girls. Or girls who think themselves free, spirit manic pixie dream girls.
Or aggressively feminist women.
Car guys.
Mentally unwell girls that don’t want to work on themselves. I have a lot of patience, and I will work through any treatment a girl needs as long as she gets the help she needs, but not if she just lets it go.
Gamer guys..
Unmotivated people
If she says “I’m just a girl” after she does absolutely anything
Vocaloid haters
mummas boy
Men who only have one genre of music they listen to
A psychopath
The therapist in training type, girl had 18 unread messages from her ex but wanted to ‘heal me.’
Women who wear chokers
The really good looking, very confident, turns out to be a narcissist with mommy and daddy issues type.
Obnoxious women
The “I’m not like most guys” type. Yeah you’re right you’re worse 🙃
The self proclaimed nice guy/attention whore
Not shocked he ended up divorced.
Women that ride horses. Stuck out twice and hit every mental disorder possible.
Inmates
Drinking and smoking daily
Perfectionist
high maintenance people
Expensive taste people
Hot and cold (anxious avoidant) they’re arguably worse than a narcissist.
People who don’t answer the question
Poser goth men
The “MEN” type
Uhh, humans? Idk I don’t like any of em
People who use “I’m a free spirit” to excuse shitty behaviors and actions
“daddy’s princess” she wanted me to spend a lot of money on her and would not appreciate small details, she has never ever worked and didn’t know the effort it took to make money
Covert narcissist. 0/11 do no recommend
Sure, free entry in clubs might seem nice but I would never date a DJ again.
Borderline/dependent personality. Mindfuckers.
Festival girls. I never felt a sense of calm when they went out. Between the drugs, the revealing clothes, and the super late nights.
I never wanted to go to those, but I would stay up for hours worried my partner would be raped or OD or kidnapped.
I trusted her to not cheat on me, but I didn’t trust her to keep herself safe.
Girls who’s only value is being attractive
Anyone named Shannon, or my mother’s name. The women who’s every boyfriend was a problem but them, and they were all “narcissistic”…. But then you quickly find out in the fuck around loop.
Narcissists 🤦🏻♀️
Women who still love their ex-husband.
Workaholics
Perfectionists
Neat Freaks
Insecure women.
Obsessive gym bro as in 2-3 hours 7 days a week. There’s keeping in shape and healthy and then there’s I’m insecure so I lift like a maniac. And big trap muscles. That screams I’m on roids. That’s a nope for me.
“Spiritual”
Bruh, if you are religious, that’s fine. If you are atheist/agnostic, also fine.
But “spiritual” types I dated always just struck me as megalomaniacs who just interpreted things that they want as “what the universe wills.”
Liberal feminist women. They will lie to you about loving you and then leave you while you’re planning your wedding over political bs thar has no bearing over the relationship.
Women with hyper religious families. I dated one and her Dad made her cry because he preached at her that I was leading her down the wrong path. He went on for hours apparently and made her cry. Apparently a dude whose got a solid career, owns a house, and treats her like an equal instead of property is the wrong path.
My fiancée’s Dad is religious too and wasn’t super stoked when she moved in but when I asked for his permission(I didn’t need it but I can bend to tradition a bit) he said he would be honored to have me as part of the family. He understands respect and love are more important than worshiping some dumb religion.
Single mothers
Stoner guy. Absolutely no issue with people who smoke a lot of weed, but I personally don’t like how it makes me feel so I don’t use it and am not interested.
Being with a heavy weed user meant so much of his time was spent smoking or related activities, and it just cut into actually having quality time together. He was a good guy, and I wish him happiness with a stoner girl of his dreams
I really can’t date a foodie again. That was fucking hell.
Law enforcement or military. Could not pay me to ever again go there.
Jealous South East Asian girl
Engineers. Not because engineers are bad people. I just know way too much about bridges now. People think I like bridges. I don’t. I just keep hearing about them and can’t unlearn all these bridge facts. I’ve somehow dated a civil, structural and an aerospace engineer. I’m not trying to find these men. They just keep finding me. And are impressed with my engineering knowledge.
Guys with no emotional intelligence
Addict/alcoholic
Greek men, men in uniform (fire, military, navy), muscle hunks, and men whose names start with the letter “J”.
Batshit crazy
People.
The “nonchalant” type of guy.
Tall men (I don’t actively search for 6ft men but they all have this weird size thing. I’m over it)
Soccer players. (That time in college was hell. Massive cheater)
And culturally speaking, mommys boys who have a mom that’s obsessed with them and hate any woman that “steals” their boy.
A charmer, I don’t need to be lovebomb.
Alcoholic
Women that don’t like cooking and eating healthy food.
secretly married
Emotionally unavailable. Men recently out of a relationship. And, unfortunately, probably Russian men
Probably would avoid extroverts
Cocky
Jack Skellington tattoo
A gamer.
Alcoholic
Girls when you ask what they’re into or what their hobbies are reply “Netflix, shopping or makeup”
idk if it’s a “type” but anxious avoidant men (i didn’t know what that was when he told me he was one ok 😭)
Guys who think everyone is judging us for being interracial :/
The “frat bro”. Aka the guy that wears polos, khaki pants/shorts, and sperrys/flip flops 😣
Controlling
Overly pessimistic, cold and detached, shows love when they feel they’re losing you.
Car guy. Never never never again
Braggart
No boundaries.
At first it was fun, shower together, sleep in tight spaces, everywhere together. But it gets old fast if it just keep happening all the time, must eat together, must go here and there together, get too close not only to my friends but also my family.
Overly stubborn or overly fair types.
Weaponised fairness is what I’d call it. The “why should I do this when you don’t xyz”. I don’t what do negotiate a trade deal while fighting a war
pessimists. it’s fucking exhausting being around someone who’s negative allllll the time
An alcoholic plumber specifically
Redheaded Bartender
HR managers. Any profession that gaslights people for a living is a “thank you, no” in my social circles. All HR are phony gaslighters, its how they protect the corp.
Musicians
Avoidants. Running away and creating space when things get real hurts so much
Single mother of 2 or more. Nuff said.
Comic Sans
Medieval
Long haired inked gothy band frontpeople. You’d think I’d have learned the first time. Nope. Unfortunately in my circles that demographic makes up a statistically significant percentage of the population 😅
Someone BIG big into BJJ, they ALWAYS want to try a move on you.
A business owner or entrepreneur.
Guys that will continue to flirt with other guys when they are in a “committed” relationship
gym bro
LOUD bar talker, it’s where we met, but she was LOUD everywhere and I mean freaking everywhere. No whisper or low volume on her.
People who lack insight and self awareness
My wife
My last 2 ex boyfriends were both from Wisconsin, moved to the same exact city in Missouri (.5 miles between their places), and had 5 letter last names that started with the same letter.
So somethings gotta be different with the next one.
Alt tattooed people. I dated a man and woman, separately, who were both alternative and had quite a few tattoos and piercings. My lordt… never again.
And I say this as a very heavily tattooed alt lady.
Alcoholics. No more, never again, get your shit together and spare me the abuse.
Smoking hot chicks, no personality. Too much insecurity thinking other guys is trying to take gf away. Not worth it.
Someone who is constantly keeping score.
Horse girl.
Sorry ladies, some of y’all are action-packed with issues.
Arrogant bro. Comes with a big ol’ long list of associated defects.
Anyone with a Cluster B personality disorder or someone with a mental illness – like bipolar.
Women who don’t clean where they live. I keep my apartment clean. I do my dishes after i eat. I dated a women who refused to clean up after herself, and it was just disgusting.
I’m a bit wary of people who take advice from social media influencers – especially with things that SOUND clever but make no sense if thought about or fall apart with just a bit of examination
More so if I get flak for pointing it out
I get approached by younger women a lot and while that makes me hesitant enough, to some degree they all seem to listen to these absolute fing intellectual kiddie-pools who care about seeming smart for clicks (And would be absolutely called out on their harmful bs if they weren’t pretty)
My own generation. Gen Z normalized bullying as a culture(“cringe” culture, and the fear of being “cringe” aka different as a result) and telling people to kill themselves online at a more alarming rate. I’ve been online for 23 years, don’t tell me it’s always been this way bc sure it was bad but… I see it everywhere now. I can’t fathom dating someone who has a high chance of shamelessly telling a fellow person to “jump” over a disagreement online, without me ever knowing.
Gen Z is hella mean. Cougars FTW
The “nice” guy I’m also never being nice to a guy again.
Women who are not able to control their emotions. If they hear/see/feel something off, they immediately burst out, and have to say something about it; doesn’t matter who’s there, or how they say it.
They’re not able to process what they’re feeling, and share it in a calm and collected way.
P.S. I see that they do this in front of people they’re comfortable with most. So their partner especially, or their parents/siblings, will be the ones to get hurt by this the most, and not any third person.
Secure, where is the drama?
My ex. Single mother with no career, life, or other goals and, as I discovered later, an honesty problem.
The type that is unable to think on their own, easily influenced by others.
Non-nerds.
“Anyone alive!” Said the necrophiliac.
Mean
An aspiring musical theater actor. Everything was a performance and he managed to make every conversation about Broadway. At my family events, he would take over the conversation and make it about musicals, and if someone changed the subject he’d bring it right back to Broadway.
I love musical theater but damn it got annoying so quick.
Cheater
They can’t be introspective at all.
“Why does everyone else suck all the time, but I’m always fine?”
Everyone fucks up. Maybe you’re a shitty driver. Maybe you don’t communicate well.
If you enter into a relationship with the attitude of “I’m totally fine…what’s YOUR problem”? You’re gonna have a bad time.
Redneck southerner
Men
Charismatic. They’re such narcissists I stg
Hot bartender
Gemini or Sagittarius.
I know that is probably not what you meant but that pretty much sums it up.
Bipolar.
Way too draining.
Strippers
A cheap-skate. Never again!
The perpetual moochin off their parents and me type, but I tolerate it cuz their going after their hot. Fuck that. They’re insecure underneath, and frankly they don’t bring enough to the table.
Emotionally unavailable, ADHD, insecure, avoidant, narcissistic, social media star, beauty over character…the list goes on and on and on…
Addict. It’s hard and it hurts your heart and they never pick you.
People who aren’t active physically (doesn’t have to be the gym), and don’t take care of themselves.
If you’re health isn’t important to you, why should I think mine is to you?
A man who looks up to Andrew Tate, Elon musk, and Conor mcwhatever
INFPs
The one that constantly talks about their sex life with all of the details and brags about how good she is at giving blowjobs
Anybody that makes one aspect of their personality their identity. You are more than just that. And if that’s all that you are or want to be…. It’s going to get old real, real fast.
Bipolar
Law enforcement
If they break up almost a year ago with their ex and you’re their next relationship and they tell you that they’re still hurting from that breakup and that they’re not sure if they believe in love the same way they did before then stop right there and don’t take it further unless you can handle just sex and no emotional attachment.
Get it out of your head that they’ll feel the love you feel for them just because you feel it. Or that being with you will heal them and then they’ll love you in the way you want to be loved. Small chance over time it could happen but high chance you’ll be there competing with someone they’ve put on a higher pedestal than you and you’ll only be hurt in the process.
Water signs
Any kind of “coach” or anyone with an OnlyFans. Been there, fuck that.
A typewriter. It was so boring.
Borderline personality disorder
BPD, ADHD, clingy
Libertarians
Too social people who are open with anyone
Heavily tattooed. Only one of us can be or its too much.
Anyone smaller than me . Little man syndrome is real AF that in itself is 🚩 🚩 🚩