From India . I was above average in my academics. As a career i wanted to join army as an officer . Max age was about 23 and I got only 2 attempt. Failed . Then police services , thr next goal but not as an officer in lower hierarchy but as an IPS (= bureaucrat level) . We can give 6 attempts. Till now i have given 4 but failed . Its been 8 years since my graduation . Mechanical engineering not from reputed university .
I don’t want to risk and work this much hard . Now i am not disciplined, m fat , m lazy . Life is not in my control .
Main issue – I brought this not only on myself . But also on my parents . They wanted simple things marriage and grand children. And I haven’t even stepped the first stair ( getting a job) .
I have no skills for a job . Dont have the energy to learn one
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So just pick yourself up and try again. You will fail a lot before you succeed.
“A man is not measured by how many times he falls, but how many times he got back up”
You still have more opportunities to join the police force. Learn from what went wrong with your last attempts and focus 100% on making sure they don’t happen when you make your next attempt.
Don’t worry. Start again. Life is not over at 30 – get in shape and reinvent. Get a plan together and get moving. Start with health as you can’t perform when fat and lacking in energy.
Good luck.