To give some context, I’ve been living with my roommate since fall 2024, and we were randomly assigned to each other. Since the beginning I’ve had to remind her constantly to clean up after herself and her animals, which is infuriating to me because she’s a grown woman that’s been living on her own for far longer than I have. She has a tendency to leave her stuff all over the communal area, and I’ve been trying to tell her to clean up after herself since the very beginning, and if I mention something specific she’ll clean it, but she refuses to make any actual changes in the way she treats the communal area. Ever since we’ve moved in I barely spend any time in the communal areas simply bc of how disgusting I find it. She has a habit of leaving an empty pot on the stovetop, or a cutting board on the kitchen counters, to the point where one time she left for a trip for multiple days and left half an onion sitting on a cutting board for the entire trip. Due to how bad I think it smells downstairs, if I’m downstairs trying to eat or do something and it’s really bad, I’ll febreeze everything downstairs. I’ve gotten so angry at her lack of cleanliness that i’ve gotten to the point of spraying febreeze directly onto any open pots or pans she’s left out, sometimes even going as far as to directly spray in the general area of them multiple times.