Am I just spoiled?

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So I’m 23F with a bachelor’s in biology. I’m currently living with my parents while I’m in nursing school (I’m returning to that in Aug). I bought my car with their help 2 years ago (like 18,000 me/7,000 them) and I’m expected to help around the house which is so fair.

The problem is, they watch my food intake and if I spend any money anywhere. What brought this on was the bank statement on my bed with every time I spent money highlighted- including money I owed to the government for taxes.

I’m a pharmacy tech so I don’t make a lot. I’m starting a new job next week but it’s further (I pay for gas) for about the same amount of money. They comment every time I buy anything out, and aren’t afraid to tell me that it will make me overweight.

With paying for gas and my phone bill, I can’t afford to move out at least for a while. What else can I do to help this situation, and is it just a first world problem in that I’m spoiled and don’t realise that this is actually lucky?

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  2. MountainChick2213 Avatar

    Are your parents on your account? If not, go paperless and don’t give them access to your acct.

  3. ChickenNoodleSoup_4 Avatar

    Why are they on you about food/weight? What’s the back story?. That’s not normal..