The husband can go fuck himself.
I’ve been married for four years and our marriage had been running strong until December last year. Since then her attitude has dramatically changed. She keeps nudging me that I splurge on my parents and younger brother but get nothing in return. I own a bike, a moped and a car all gifted by my parents. The house I own, 55% down payment made by him without a single word ever asking for any money. To this day none of my cousins or siblings have ever bought anything for me. She’s received gifts from them. For her to repeatedly make such allegations breaks my heart.
Today we went out to collect my brothers clothes from the tailor. On seeing the bill amount ($40) and realizing that I’m gonna pay it she lost it. She went about it again, saying financial favours and gifts go only one way. Because I’m so compliant she’s gonna buy herself something too. All while bad mouthing my parents. I’m not in a financial lurch luckily and she can have the dress she wants. But the reason felt vile.
By the time we reached to see her dresses I’d driven 90 minutes in evening traffic, I was hungry, tired and was feeling down in general due to her comments. The next complain comes that I’m sitting there with sad rotten expression in my face instead of actively participating. How can she be so self involved?
End of rant.
Women in this side of asia have the option to bitch about their husbands to their sisters, mother but we men don’t. I just wanted to vent out before going to bed.
Looking forward to tomorrow. Yay.
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You and like you’re chained to this person. Just walk away. No more gifts.
Laughs “in asian”.
No but on a serious note my friend, mine did the same and she is latina… besides the one time she cheated, even whitout it i would have kicked her out sooner or later. Fuck parents or culture, do you really want to live the rest of dour life with someone nagging at everything you do?
I don’t