I just learned that I’m not actually experiencing what I should be during sex. Essentially and I never knew this, ejaculation and orgasm are not always linked.
I’ve always wondered why I get fucking WIRED and all my male and female partners would always nod off.
ANYWAY……
Tried some things, hit some spots.
It’s actually the thing everything else seems to have. I actually get why people risk it all now. 30 years on this planet and apparently butt stuff was the answer to how my brain turns off and goes to a happy place.
How do y’all achieve this? Big fan of what I just had but the logistics forever seem……. unobtainable for my depressed self.
Edit: The this being achieved being full body orgasms that make your mind go blank, not just ejaculating and going about your business again after you “hear the devil’s laughter”
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comparison is the thief of joy…why compare to others, enjoy whatever youre doin
uhhhh with my girlfriend’s mouth
Are you on antidepressants? Other meds? You might want to talk to a doctor about this.
It’s all I can do to not orgasm. Easier to tell you how I delay it. But generally the more I can delay it the more intense it eventually will be.
Go to a bath house, check out fetlife, and dont be afraid to make your needs heard.
I go at least every other day. But it’s just a “get this handled” when I handle myself.
With my partner the orgasm is better/fuller but I never nod off. I too just get wired.
That’s a horrible curse. The other way around would be a blessing though.
This is personal but are you circumcised? Apparently the loss of sensation can make o harder as you age
Just gotta find a partner you’re comfortable telling your needs to. Any one who loves you should be more than happy to push whatever Buttons you need pushed
I just picture your Mom the best I can