I lost my interest in this dude

r/

Sooo…
There was this guy i used to be interested in whom i would text back almost immediately, though he had his special interest’s…
But since we can’t meet up as frequent as i would have wanted to due to me being a single mom and him due to his work schedule and the fact that he is a single dad as well…
But the moment’s that we were able to meet up were fun yet awkward at time’s mostly due to the fact that i am an awkward person😅…
But recently even though we can have the option to meet up he’d rather spend his time on his special interests instead of meeting up though he did ask when we could meet up last time we spoke…
Somehow my interest in him seems like it has almost faded away completely…
Especially since i started talking to this amazing lady whom i am completely smitten with even though she live’s on the other side of the world and who has been a single mom for a long time…
The guy texted me again today but i barely felt even a hint of interest in him anymore..
But as far as i know he never knew i was interested in him anyway, though i know that i reacted enthusiastically when he used to message as where now i reacted with quite a distant stance…
But this lady, she is amazing, we videocalled and i imagined getting married with her, she is the first one that awakened that pure raw feeling of i wanna get married, i was even checking out ring’s wedding outfit’s and where we could get a same gender marriage and so on…
Which i didn’t have with any guy ever…
My head is a jungle since i am having trouble financially and i want to be able to meet her and marry her and take her and her kid home with me🥹

I might be slightly more on the fruitier side than i thought lol…

Comments

  1. embryo80 Avatar

    Trust your intuition; you’ll be fine.

  2. greenufo333 Avatar

    Damn you could totally be the girl I’m talking to rn lol