So I’m (32f)not against my (33m)spouse. Not trying to control. Don’t want him to change, just me. He plays online video games. There are other females that are pretty regular. Nothing happens. He doesn’t do anything inappropriate or cross boundaries. My issues are mine. I’m just insecure and really just want advice to get over myself. He’s open with it. I can hear what’s said. Like I said nothing is shady on his part. It’s just when I see a game tag and recognize it’s a females I can just feel myself tense and I try to ignore it or hide it bc it’s so irrational. I just want to be okay and at peace. Because I should be. And he invites me to play too. So I just want advice on how to stop worrying when I have no reason to.
Tl;dr : I get insecure spouse plays video games w females and I want to chill
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Self care, self care, and self care.
You should absolutely join in, it sounds like he’s trying to connect you into his world a bit more, and maybe getting to know his friends, as well as the side of him that plays games will help since you’ll know the nature of their relationship.
Nothing wrong with noticing things and maybe joining in.